Well Duh...(OUTSPOKEN_DIVA's Favorite Recipes)

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A Garden Salad

Ingredients

• 8 cups lettuce
• 1 cup cucumber, peeled & chopped
• 1 cup tomatoes, chopped
• 1 cup mixed vegetables (radish, shredded carrot, purple cabbage)
• 1⁄4 cup yellow onion, chopped
• 6-12 pitted black olives, sliced
• 2 tablespoons dry-roasted peanuts
• 1 tablespoon garlic croutons

Dressing

• ¼ cup olive oil
• 2 tablespoons vinegar (cider, balsamic or white)
• 1 teaspoon honey
• salt-free Italian seasoning to taste

Directions

1. Place all salad ingredients in a large bowl.
2. Place dressing ingredients in a small bowl and whisk until well mixed.
3. Toss salad with dressing to taste and serve immediately.

It's that Simple! Now, how do you make it? LoL

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Revenge Costs Too Much

Read THIS and come back.

There are days y'all remind me I've never been in love & I don't think like many.

Never have I ever lied to an ex about my dating status. I have an ex that sometimes wants to visit whenever he's in town. His question is always, "Would your man mind if I came by". If I am single, I let him know I am. And I don't let guys use me in a lie to their exes. If Football Nerd had not passed away, he could testify to that fact. The night I met the mother of his child, on the way to church he asked could he say I was his girlfriend. I refused him. Why lie? The funny part was she thought I was his lady then.

And unlike the ladies HERE over at The View, I don't agree with what this 24-year-old lady did. I am most like the good folks HERE at Dish Nation. Her revenge was very costly for her. But I get it! I was 24 at one time. And yes, Heartbreak is Painful. I was actually still reeling some from the heartbreak of the aforementioned unnamed ex and Football Nerd at that age. That's why I am using these two in this post.

And do you know what was my revenge? Going on living my life and letting my heart heal. Back then, I was in preparation for getting my Bachelor's degree. I just had to play through the pain. And you know the end of the stories, ended up doing some healing, I got the degree, Football Nerd became my best friend (He was at the commencement.), and that other ex just checked on me during the Texas Snow Storm of 2021(You may not have known the last part. But now you do.) I refused to let a lie give anybody that kind of power. And like the wise songstresses, Envogue says, "When you Lying, You're Losing". Who wants to do that?

Heartbreak should never be strong enough to let you do crazy stuff. Lying is crazy stuff. Spending money on the lie is crazy stuff. And the fact others around her went along with this is crazy stuff.

But many like crazy stuff!!!

*sigh*

Wholeness with Healed Hearts is the Best Revenge. And you can challenge me on that.

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Ride or Die Gender Lessons (Answering Questions)

You asked me questions. I answered those questions. And the cycle goes around and around.

Q: Would you hold a man down if he went to prison?

A: Simple Answer is More than likely Not. The judge will break us up. I have experience dating a guy who had been to prison before we met. You can read about that HERE. My stance hasn't changed. And I don't give a definitive No because there might be a tinge of belief in his innocence depending on the crime. Like if the crime is embezzlement from charitable funds. I would have to see the proof, especially if our finances didn't increase. Plus I've seen a few local politicians go down for a few months because their name was signed on the sneakily placed paperwork. Oh and I can see true accidents as such. But if he clearly did a crime, I'm out. Because knowing me, I told him not to do that mess, and/or he lied to or deceive me.

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