MY SITTING SHOES

Next summer I'm wearing these puppies
Come on sitting event for the sitting shoes

Reputting them away *tear*
I know I got issues

Everyone who knows me knows when it comes to my feet I do not believe fashion is pain. I'll wear girdles, shaping cami, body slips, panyhose d lift my bust as high as I can stand it that day or night but my feet have to feel good. I only wear High heels (over 2 1/2 inches) to sitting events (75 - 100 % sitting). Like jazz bars or funerals of my relatives (because I know I'll have a seat).

I used to wear them to church but I changed churches The church I attend now we stand for praise and worship for at least 15 to 30 minutes and I don't like taking my shoes of in public. So the 2 1/2 go into the Lord's house.

Those pair I had a chance to wear them for my birthday in June. But after grocery shopping, going to the bank, and walking all over two shoes store with my teenage niece looking for her some comfy shoes, my ankle was a tad swollen so I settled for some cute wedges that evening.

I have friends that subscribe to the pain is beauty rule when it comes to shoes. One can't line dance without sitting & the other's foot swells in stilettos. Yet they forge ahead in their trendy footwear.  Such brave souls.

I've even noticed in many pictures I quite shorter than my friends. LoL I'm already 5'2" and standing in ankle wraped thong sandals (though very cute) next to someone in 4 inch gladitors looks hilarious. But hey I could hit the dance floor all night. They could not.

And you would think somebody would make cuter comfortable Mid- high to flat shoes or Comfortable High heel shoes. But nooooo not so. Oh well. On to next year. To wear my patent leather (yes I follow the labor day rule) high heeled platformed pumps LoL Let me get out the peep toe wedges

Umm It's Just Social Networking, Dang!!!

I got a friend who just deleted one of their Social Networking account because of their "messy" co-workers found it or friend requested them. And not wanting to cause drama or hurt feelings at work he just deleted the account.

I've already told my pal that they were crazy for doing that( in a loving OutSpoken_Diva way). Nobody is gonna drive me away.

But I don't understand drama because I don't want to be your social networking friend. That is childish. It's JUST social networking. And my pal's tale is not the first time I've heard of this, many have this woe. Even I've experienced too. But why is that? Do people have to have so much validation in life that a denied friend request would break your heart? Well I've crash a many of them and will continue to do so.

If I don't feel that a person needs to be my social network buddy for whatever reason I will not have them be my social network pal. Point Blank. Nothing more, Sad if it was less.

7 Ways to Glam Up the Walk of Shame???

Saw this article today 7 Ways to Glam Up the Walk of Shame and my reaction was Ewww. I am not a prude I know people have sex but why are they glorifying the "Walk of Shame". Umm that is SHAMEFUL. Pretty much need to say "How to be Cute after being a Jump Off". Walk of Shame is not something to be proud of. Let me be crass, if you Can't wash your butt at their place then umm...

I don't think some people understand the outcome of their decision. There toooo many diseases out there to be all willy nilly about casual sex. There's nothing Glamorous about catching an STD or HIV/AIDS. And amazing how this article never at least suggested "safe sex" How about an article on the Ways on Preventing the Walk of Shame. Like one tip being "Slow you hot tail down"

Well Hello Beautiful I think this article is down right ugly. Shame on You!!!

Life's Soundtrack

If life had a sound track what would it sound Like

Opening Credits: Southern Girl - Erykan Badu

Waking Up: Morning Sun by George Duke

Average Day: Playing for Time by Acoustic Alchemy

First Date: Bubbly - Colbe Caillat

Falling In Love: Yeah, Yeah, Yeah - Voices

Love Scene: Septembro - Quincy Jones

Fight Scene: I Refuse - Aaliyah

Breaking Up: Gotta Go Gotta Leave - Vivienne Green

Getting Back Together: Old Friend - Phylis Hyman

Secret Love: Favorite Fantasy - Morisha Danee'

Life's Okay: If You're Happy & You Know It - Vickie Winans

Mental Breakdown: Univited - Alanis Morissette

Driving: Liberation- OutKast

Learning A Lesson: Make Me Over - Tonex

Deep Thought: Smile - Chris Botti

Flashback: Que Sera Que Sera - Sly Stone & the Family

Happy Dance: Ebony Eyes - Stevie Wonder

Regretting: Without You - Charlie Wilson

Long Night Alone: Raw Sugar - Paul Taylor

Death Scene: I Bow Out - John P Kee

Closing Credits: Nothing to Lose - The Clark Sisters

WAIT'S THAT'S MY LIFE
NOW WHAT'S YOU LIFE'S SOUNDTRACK

Let's Keep it Real

People always want to Keep it Real. But Everyone should not Keep it Real they should Keep it Real for them. As we all should. I am a firm believer that what is Real for You is Fake to Everyone Else. No one else can be the real you but you. If you are living your truths ONLY then you are keeping it real!!!  :D

WELCOME

Ummm an OutSpokenDiva, A tad bit of an Opinionated_Cutie, One might Say!!! My Life is an Open Book!!! Just make sure you're Literate enough to Read it!!! And if you read my Thoughts you're reading a page of that Open Book!!!