Umm Sir...

And this is why I have to type & not talk. At some point, I have to admit the Pimp-Jedi Mind Trick method of dating is strong in some of the male population. This has been making the rounds on social media.

"You have children with someone else so, I should also have a child with someone else & we raise them all together in our committed monogamous relationship".

That is was what he is saying but he didn't finish his statement. Here is what he was certainly saying

"You have children with someone else so, I should also have a child with someone else & we raise them all together in our committed monogamous relationship because your womb is not worthy of my firstborn".

Luckily, I see more men saying that this guy is wildly wrong.

*sigh*

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Metrosexual...What A Laugh

Shoutout to my phone for not recognizing the word, Metrosexual.

When the 20th Century was ending, I remember many expressing their comical disappointment that the word, Metrosexual was created. I chuckled because I was one of the users of that word. If you don't remember Metrosexual was the description for a cis-heterosexual man who is conscious of stereotypical feminine interests and is very concerned with personal appearance, as in grooming and dressing stylishly.

Yes, there was a popular word to call straight men who paint their nails, have hair care & skincare routines, wear more than t-shirts, jeans, & sweats when casual, and/or carry clutch bags.

I was looking at the analytics and THIS particular post had been looked at a few times, recently. (I have a feeling why.) I read over it. There was a lot of talk about my preference for men to wear lotion & haircuts. I still feel that way. Ashiness is the devil. It will Always be vile to me. And there was a little talk about me buying my nephew lip balm. (That was a good investment. Now, his skin moisturizing skills need work.) And I don't regret any of it. I still feel those ways. 

But I don't like I was some opinionated in a judgy manner. Why was I so passionate about men wearing guyliner or Manx? And what is "Basic Metrosexual"? I can't believe we defined a man's sexuality based on his grooming habits. Products like Manscape & Scotch & Porter are probably sitting laughing at us and our terms. You know who I blame...Pop Culture. LoL I can still blame them in 2022. And I Shall!

Yeah, Kelli, that is what that is...Growth.

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Rest Self-Love, Rest

I have a Rest playlist. It is an aid that helps put me in a Happy mood. Happiness gives me the energy to face a day's list that has to be done.  On it, there is a tune called Lullaby by an artist simply named Tasha. It's an easy tune with a powerful message.

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Sometimes letting it all go for the moment is best. We stay so mentally drained because we won't just take our hands off crap & relax for a tiny bit. We were fed a hustle, must handle it mentality in such a manner that loosening the reins for even a small-time feel lazy. 

But it is not. 

The care, the magic, & the strength have a pause button. It's okay to press it.  The term Manmade Construct is thrown around a lot. Being on all the time is one of those things. Show me the commandment or law and I'll tell you to put them in that same pile. We are looking at too many dying because both ends are burnt & they have met in the middle. Let's put out our flames & strike a match when we have cooled out a bit.

Are you listening, Outspoken_Diva?

*wipes tears from eyes*

I am!

Thank You! I Love You! Goodnight!

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Talk About It Tuesday (Pick Me ~vs~ Couldn't Have Been Me)

Time to talk to THESE cultures because both of them are lonely. 

And I wore a pink hoodie with rose gold earrings on purpose. I mean how should I walk in my feminine & masculine energies at once. LoL

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I Am So Rusty (Answering Questions)

I did remember to say Greetings & Salutations. Everything else... Let's just say I giggled at the Q & A Video for this post. Gosh, I can be long-winded. Oh Well!!!

Q: I Saw This and I Thought About What Would You Say... Do You Agree With the Text Sender?

A: Stuff like this is why there is still a written portion on Q &A posts. A few profane terms came to mind after reading this. I can not believe that this is a thing to stop seeing someone for. That person was not ever going to be in it for the long haul. I would cut my losses & Thank the Lord the foolishness reared its ugly head now. And yes, I will erase numbers & any other forms of communication, immediately. My urge to eat the honey wheat brown bread at Cheesecake Factory as soon as it hits the table and I don't need that kind of negativity. "Wait Five Minutes" The bread could get cold by then. He should've taken 5 minutes and grammar-checked that text message. Like doesn't his phone's shift/cap button work. *sigh* Let me stop before I use the words dumb & the a-word in this answer. No, I don't agree with the text sender.

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Watch the Rules to Cheating Discussion HERE. Remember the 1st rule is "Don't Cheat".

Please forgive me for the long-winded rambling. *smiling*

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