Tuesday, December 13, 2022

You Name It! (OUTSPOKEN Diva's Favorite Recipes)


Stewed Southern Greens and Tomatoes
 

Ingredients

  • 1-pound bag of stemmed and washed greens (turnips, mustard, and/or collards)
  • 3 tablespoons butter
  • 1 large onion, chopped
  • 2 to 4 garlic cloves to taste, minced
  • 2 teaspoons sweet paprika
  • ¼ to ½ teaspoon cayenne
  • 2 pounds fresh tomatoes, seeded and grated, or peeled, seeded, and chopped, or a 28-ounce can of chopped tomatoes with juice 
  •  1 Tblsp Italian Seasoning
  • 2 tsp Low Sodium Old Bay Seasoning

Directions
  1. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Fill a bowl with ice water. When the water comes to a boil, add the greens for 2 minutes. Transfer to the ice water, then drain and squeeze out water. Coarsely chop and set aside. Alternatively, steam the greens in a large steamer – Rinse and squeeze dry.
  2. In a wide, heavy skillet or Dutch oven, heat the oil over medium heat and add the onion. Cook until the onion is tender and beginning to color, 5 to 8 minutes, and add the garlic, paprika, and cayenne. 
  3. Cook, stirring, for about a minute, until fragrant, and add the tomatoes. Bring to a simmer, and simmer until the tomatoes have cooked down slightly about 10 minutes. 
  4. Add the greens and herbs and bring to a simmer. Cover and simmer until the greens are very tender, about 20 minutes. Serve with rice, quinoa, or just some good cornbread or crusty bread.

White Bean Stew

Ingredients 

  • 1 Tbsp olive oil, plus more for serving
  • 1 medium-sized onion, diced
  • 1 celery stalk, diced
  • 1 large carrot, diced
  • 2 cans cannellini beans or white beans, drained 
  • 1-2 garlic cloves, diced or pressed
  • 1 cup, frozen spinach 
  • 1 can stewed tomatoes 
  • 1 tsp Italian seasoning
  • 1 cup (500 ml) vegetable or chicken broth or hot water 

Directions

  1. Warm the olive oil in a large pot over medium heat. Once the oil is shimmering, add the diced onion, carrot, and celery. Cook, stirring often, until the onion has softened and is turning translucent, about 5 minutes.
  2. Add the garlic, beans, tomatoes, and Italian seasoning. Cook stirring frequently, for about 1 minute.
  3. Then add the frozen spinach and the vegetable broth. Raise the heat and bring the mixture to a boil, then cover the pot, reduce the heat, and cook gently for 15 minutes.
  4. Divide into bowls, drizzle with olive oil or extra virgin olive oil, and more freshly ground black pepper if you like. Serve with crusty whole-grain bread and, if you don't keep it vegan, add freshly grated parmesan cheese for extra flavor.
These dishes warm your body & soul. My eyes & belly are craving these recipes. Once you make & have them I hope yours will too.

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Tuesday, December 6, 2022

Talk About It Tuesday (Why? Because it is Christmas)


Got to get me some Raspberry Bon-Bons. Those are my favorite candy. It can't even be the Most Wonderful Time of the Year without those & controversy. This is not even my favorite holiday, but I wish you all would find comfort and peace 
and leave folk alone with your Bah Hum Bug assumptions about their finances. But hey, God Bless You, Everyone! I have a tea spill to clean off the cuff of my sweater. Happy Holidays!!!

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Thursday, December 1, 2022

My Glasses Will Choose the Updates? (Answering Questions)


The other day, I considered repeating introductions and seeing if you, the readers would notice. Don't put it past me. I might just do it. LoL And yes, I meant the question mark in the title.

Q: If it was an option in your culture, would you be in an arranged marriage?

A: I wouldn't. From what I know about arranged marriages, the parents pick a spouse for you. I was raised by a single mother and her parents. I don't trust their choices in people & thoughts on how the world works. In 2015, maybe 2016, I realized my grandmother still thought people, mainly Black only interact within their immediate communities. Her "frenemy's" grandson got married, she asked, Who was the girl he married and couldn't comprehend why we didn't know anything about her. That said it means her "choosing pool" for me would be tiny (Foundation church men, male relatives of Garden Club members & at my grandfather's job & social scene, maybe the neighbor's male relatives & friends). My mother's pool would be bigger but because of the marriage between my dad & her, her criteria would be tough. My mother says she would marry the 1st man with 4 million dollars in cash in his pocket. And mother wants better for her children.

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Well, that was Fun! Buying the infant medicine droppers soon. The Questions That were Updated can be Found HERE & HERE.

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Tuesday, November 29, 2022

Ready for Ugly Money & Updates (Answering Questions)


Somebody had a Question. And well, I am answering it. That Simple!

Q:
A: Sure Would. The creator of this question didn't understand, "What Others Think About You is Not Your Business".  And well, that person's misunderstanding of my looks just happens to cost... 

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Oh, the Question That was Updated can be Found HERE.

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Tuesday, November 22, 2022

Talk About It Tuesday (Everybody Ain't Your Friend, But...)

 


As of the time I made the above video, the FBI has opened an investigation. May the truth about the death of Shanquella Robinson comes out. Her family deserves at least that. Because a lie is not how her death should be deduced. And I hope we All use the case to learn more about positive displays of Friendships & how to utilize them in our lives.

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Saturday, November 19, 2022

Friendsgiving

Friendsgiving is a blend of friend and Thanksgiving, and it refers to a large meal eaten with friends either on or near Thanksgiving. Thank you, Merriam-Webster for the definition. Friendsgiving has been a very creative idea that makes me proud even though I've never had a chance to experience it. I hate to hear about people being mopey during the holidays because they can't celebrate in a traditional way. I'm shocked that those that like thr fairy tale toned versions of the beginnings of Thanksgiving haven't high-jacked this term. Because of the way the first Thanksgiving story is taught, it does sound like a Friendsgiving. And that makes me wonder how did the day become a "family" day. 

Oh well, that's possible research for another day. I want to talk about the movie, Friendsgiving. If you are new to my platform, I am a person that refuses to skip Thanksgiving and go straight to Christmas. And I continue to request TV networks like Hallmark, Freeform, & Lifetime to make Thanksgiving movies instead of showing yuletide films in November. And whenever I learn about a Thanksgiving movie, I'm watching it. Friendsgiving on Netflix was no exception.

Molly and Abbey, who are getting over bad relationships host an impromptu, dysfunctional, chaotic, and witty Thanksgiving dinner with their crew of close friends & not-so-close friends.

It is full of warm drama & dark comedy. It takes place in Hollywood-adjacent L.A. There are the tropes (divorcée, gays, away from family, estranged mother, ex-boyfriend, botoxed at the last minute, invited single daters, & a vegan shaman) & non-tropes (black married couple with children, an infant, & a confused rebound)
This gathering wasn't planned. It was honestly a last-minute covered dish refuge for friends. But it balloons into a small house party. I could relate to the kitchen scenes. Covered dish soirees get chuckles because "What is this" or "Who made this" is funny. But this film does take a weird turn because of drugs & alcohol. But the movie pulls it together and the main characters figure they need to deal with their pasts so they can have better futures and a better Thanksgiving.

Friendsgiving lives up to the true definition of the term it is named after. If you can't be grateful with family & their shenanigans, give thanks with some friends. Because believe it or not, shamans pray just as long as a granddad.

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

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Wednesday, November 16, 2022

Sweet Potato Memories (OUTSPOKEN Diva's Favorite Recipes)


Sweet Potato Pie

Ingredients

  • 3 large sweet potatoes
  • ½ cup butter softened
  • 1 tablespoon vanilla extract
  • 2 cups sugar, or more to taste
  • ½ teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
  • 4 eggs, beaten
  • ¾ cup 2% milk
  • 2 (9-inch) unbaked pie shells

Directions

  1. Preheat the oven to 425°F and place a piece of foil on a baking sheet. 
  2. Use a fork to poke holes into the sweet potatoes, set them on the baking sheet, and roast for 40 to 50 minutes, or until puffed up and soft inside when pierced with a fork.
  3. Remove from oven and let potatoes completely cool. Remove and discard skin.
  4. Lower the oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
  5. Combine sweet potatoes, butter, sugar, vanilla, and pumpkin pie spice in a large bowl. Whisk eggs and milk together in a small bowl; blend into sweet potato mixture. Pour filling into pie shells.
  6. Bake pies in the preheated oven for 60 minutes, or until a knife inserted in the center comes out clean.
RIP Aunt V, your pies were delicious & fondly remember. And I also miss you bringing us sweet potatoes from East Texas. The store prices are too high. The thumbnail is one of my recipe folders that contains written, cut-out, & printed recipes since 2004. When my life is over (no time soon, I hope), I don't know who I will leave them with. But always remember if you ask me how to make something, I checked there first. LoL Again below leave a dish that you learned to make some the recipe wouldn't die.

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