Define Good, Bad, Hoe, & F*ck Boy (Answering Questions)

Time to tick off everyone but maybe me and two others in one post. Oh, also know that I have answered and had follow up discussions with the person who sent in this question. Thank you so much for your mature understanding. *wink*

Q: Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Boys?

A: I HATE this question. I also HATE it's counterpart statements, "Good Guys Finish Last" & "Hoes be Winning".

Has anyone else looked at the pop culture terms frequently used?

• Good Girls
• Bad Boys
• Hoes
• Bad Girls
• F*ck Boys
• Good Man
• Good Guys

Look at who gets a Respectable Adult term. How often is Good Women used in pop culture? Go Figure!!! And because of this, "Good Men" are lead into the idealistic sexist entitled belief, Good belongs with Good.

Oh wait, this post will speak in hetersexual terms but its message is not just to the heterosexual. "Good Men" & "Good Women" in the LGBTQIA+ community have the same beliefs about Good Girls, Hoes, Bad Boys, & F*ck Boys. This is a Human message.

Now do me a favor, define Good & Bad people. Is the definition steeped in stereotypes? Is it based on personal experiences? Do you have tangible definition?

Why do "Good Girls" like "Bad Boys"? Because it is their choice. No one is forced into dating anyone. Also in the dating/romance/love world, there is no where stated that Good must date, screw, or marry Good. "Good Men" are not given first dibs on who "Good Girls" date. "Good Girls" have the only dibs on who they date.

Good People are doing just that, being Good. Good people are

• Honest
• Happy
• Respectful of Others
• Confident
• Emotionally Secure & Open
• Self-Disciplined
• Take Pride in Themselves
• Compassionate

That is a lot of stuff to be responsible for. So apparently, who the other Good people are dating is a quality of a Good person. Good people know that Life is based on the sum total of Learning Experiences. That includes dating & romance. They respect everyone living our own dating equations. Which makes asking, "Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Boys" a flaw they shouldn't have to ask.

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