Eh, Not So Good (Answering Questions)

Time to be bad and get on some nerves along the way.

Q: Why are you against being called a "Good Girl"? You seem pretty good to me.

A: Thank you for the compliment. You mean it. LoL For me, "Good Girl" is not a young female human that does nice things in the world".  Life's experience has made me not see that term as a compliment, all the time Yes, it has protected me from some heartache from time to time. Yet, it still doesn't feel good to hear it. The "Good Girl" term is very annoying & lazy term to describe me.

People who do so, use it as an total sum description based on only a few experiences with me in one or two places. And when you total anything up, having to add more later is such a problem. I understand if we were dealing with a grocery bill but this is human life. People who have summed me up as a "Good Girl" are always surprised & say some of the rudest stuff when they learned more about me that doesn't fit the box they put me in. They feel like you've been lying to them. Like you told them to write you down as such.

The first time I heard someone say, "Oh now, she wants to tell it" was when I decided to be annoyed with, "Good Girl". It wouldn't bother me so much, if it wasn't for the fact that people are stupid enough to tell me that they slapped this crown on me & it pains them to take it off. Like I'm not human enough to live my life like all the other humans. Oh well, that's a hurt they have to writhe in. Because hey if living my life is wrong, I won't be right.

Don't forget to send all questions to C.OUT.SPOKEN.DIVA@GMAIL.COM. I will answer them as well as I can.

As Always Talking to You In Adult Terms!!!