What's Your Motivation?

Oh Boy, You guys love to run with part of a story. But a gossip site gave you all a portion of the story and gossip sites are always right. I almost approached this topic with just that portion. Then my sense said, "Come On" and went to the source and got the whole story. Upon researching the full video, the question presented along with its discussion & the story of what the chef did do not match.

I'm glad when people are motivated to make positive changes in their lives. We all could change something(s) to help us thrive more. But when it seems like the base motivation is fear another will leave, I have to wonder will the changes stick. It is not the same as them encouraging you to be better. Fear is defined as an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain or a threat. Yes, not attempting to be your best could mess up a relationship. But what if you are being your best and they still leave?

I think doing it for you should be your base motivation. Let a love's thought be secondary. Because at the end of the day, you will always there with you. Might as well be there for you.

As for my opinion based on the non-matching discussion that the panel had...this post HERE should say enough. But the discussion does help give a reason why a woman with vitiligo would wear those wigs all the time.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!!!