If I were to wed today, there would be 3 married women involved in my wedding. My sister, A and friends Intellectual Diva(ID) & Pink Red are married. I can't imagine asking them to take off their rings. The jewelry I pick could be silver & their ring is gold and I still would have them to take their ring off. I definitely can't imagine either of them doing that request.
Who sees the Matron of the Bride's ring? I never have. Only thing I notice is:
- If the Matron is older than the bride and the rest of the wedding party
- If the Matron(and Maid) have on different dresses than the bridesmaids
I think this sister should take her husband's advice and wear her band. Also, discuss her decision with the bride and also to remind her that this is her wedding and marriage. Anyone that would judge her husband based on the size of her wedding ring, does not need to be around. Oh, and she is included in the anyone.
In my opinion, only three people are needed in a marriage; a loving husband, a loving wife, and their higher power(if they don't have one, I guess two). Judgments are Never needed or wanted. And sometimes the main negative judge is we, ourselves.
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Any Grey's Anatomy fans reading this? Remember when Miranda chose her bridal party? That plan sounds better and better as life continues.
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That is the brides OWN feelings about her OWN ring, I loved my very first ring and I still keep it, its what he was able to afford at the time and I love him for wanting me in his life NOT for the size of the ring, and you are right I have NEVER seen a bridesmaids ring, no one has ever run up to the bridesmaid or matron of honor asking to see her ring! I promise these brides need to get it together on what their day is actually about! I would love that my husband wouldn't have an issue but I am not sure I would do that.... if she is going to throw a temper tantrum over HER OWN judgment of her ring, so be it, but it really has nothing to do with anyone else... (I MAY feel different IF the sister had just recently gotten married and some people who weren't at hers asked... I don't know I still cant see anyone coming up and then trying to compare--)
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DeleteThis is not basic Bridezilla behavior. The bride is insecure.