Believe It or Not (Answering Questions)

You guys have questions, I think I have answers.

Q: You were very quiet on the Antione Fuqua/Lela Rochon/Nicole Murphy scandal. Did you not have an opinion?

A: Antoine Fuqua is/was wrong! Unless the Fuquas have an open relationship, He's a cheater. Anybody that said that first, said my feelings. My only viewpoint that was not said is

"I'm Glad I Have Been Fat All My Life". Lela Rochon's weight gain being blamed for her husband infidelity did not shock me. "Being Fat" is still allowed to be a punchline & a scapegoat. But when you guys want to have that conversation, Call Me! Antoine Fuqua is/was wrong!

Q: I just had a horrible first date. How to avoid this?

A: This question was asked in offline land and the asker suggested I bring my answer here.  Well, unless you count being stood up, I have never had a bad first date. I credit one thing. I never go out with a guy without having at least a 30-minute phone call with them. I am an observer, so I watch for key things. Is he willing to have a conversation? Can he hold a conversation? Does he mumble? And the major key, What does he talk about? If I have to pull basic information out of him because all he wants to talk about sex or how these "females" act(That was rough to type. Trying not to correct that), I am not going out with that guy. We are already expecting their representative, no use wasting time on a spokesperson for a product I know is not marketed for me.

And before anyone asks, my worst date ever was when his friend tagged along after basketball practice. The friend stiffed the air around my sandwich and my date cracked up laughing. Then on the way to dropping the friend off, Rom-Com called. I didn't answer it of course, but the friend blurted out who was calling me. I finally told the friend to grow up. And all my date said "Yeah". Oh, who was the date?!?Barracuda Stumps, the worst boyfriend, ever.

Q: Are you offended by being called a snack? It's something about it that seems too small to be a compliment.

A: I rarely hear Snack these days. The term doesn't offend me. Actually the closest to me catcalling men was me calling good looking ones, Peanut. I got that from my sister's male friend, Jackson. He used to use it a lot. But I do understand the smallness of Snacks. I think of myself as Whole Foods Groceries. LoL You know Quality, Not So Cheap, & a Little Effort is Needed to be Enjoyed. (Now, I see why I'm single) As soon as type this answer, I will change that to be my Twitter handle. Wonder who will get it.

Thank you for the questions. You know I can't answer them without you guys. And if you ever have questions you would like for me to answer, send them to C.OUT.SPOKEN.DIVA@gmail.com. And I will answer them.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!