If He Were Handsome...

If you have already boxed me into a Good Girl crate and/or are the gossipy type, LEAVE NOW! THANKS FOR the CLICK But I'm NEVER in the Mood.

Side-Eye Time

Have you heard about the pastor who stepped down from his church position because he said wives need to stay as sexy as they can for husbands if they don't want their husbands to cheat, in the pulpit of his former church? 

You haven't? Go read about it HERE, HERE, & HERE and come back.

This is the attitude about women that has ruled life for too long. I've noticed that I went on first dates or meet-ups with no makeup, no weaves or wigs, no fragrances, and no heels ("Let him see the real package he's possibly getting") because of this type of belief. I know a few women who don't sleep with protective hair scarves or pillowcases because they have a man. I have had a ring awaiting girlfriends as business clients that were told if they lose a little weight they would get the ring.

One of my favorite bloggers & podcasters
just posted this right before I finished this post.
WoW!!!

And this behavior & statements come from the gender that has members who come over to a planned "sleepover" without pajamas and/or a change of clothes. These are the words from the gender who have spouses frequently commenting on their raggedy underwear that is constantly worn and not thrown away. Hopefully, this pastor who suggests wives at least look like "participant trophies", does not have feces stains in his clothing that have been scrubbed or soaked. That gender has members that do that.

That's How Childish Some Men Sound

The Nerve! And put your out-of-context Biblical texts away. I read the word. First Corinthians 7:4a is used a lot. What about the "b" part of the passage? If wives are to keep it right and tight for her husband, what does a husband do for her? Faithfulness is not a fair trade. Exodus 20:14 takes care of that for both partners. What you else got?

....this sermon would still be very misogynistic & gross. No matter how he looks this sermon shouldn't have happened. I just titled this post that to get you guys here. So put your "Angry with Outspoken Diva" reply fingers & thumbs away, this time. This Time! LoL

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!