Revenge Costs Too Much

Read THIS and come back.

There are days y'all remind me I've never been in love & I don't think like many.

Never have I ever lied to an ex about my dating status. I have an ex that sometimes wants to visit whenever he's in town. His question is always, "Would your man mind if I came by". If I am single, I let him know I am. And I don't let guys use me in a lie to their exes. If Football Nerd had not passed away, he could testify to that fact. The night I met the mother of his child, on the way to church he asked could he say I was his girlfriend. I refused him. Why lie? The funny part was she thought I was his lady then.

And unlike the ladies HERE over at The View, I don't agree with what this 24-year-old lady did. I am most like the good folks HERE at Dish Nation. Her revenge was very costly for her. But I get it! I was 24 at one time. And yes, Heartbreak is Painful. I was actually still reeling some from the heartbreak of the aforementioned unnamed ex and Football Nerd at that age. That's why I am using these two in this post.

And do you know what was my revenge? Going on living my life and letting my heart heal. Back then, I was in preparation for getting my Bachelor's degree. I just had to play through the pain. And you know the end of the stories, ended up doing some healing, I got the degree, Football Nerd became my best friend (He was at the commencement.), and that other ex just checked on me during the Texas Snow Storm of 2021(You may not have known the last part. But now you do.) I refused to let a lie give anybody that kind of power. And like the wise songstresses, Envogue says, "When you Lying, You're Losing". Who wants to do that?

Heartbreak should never be strong enough to let you do crazy stuff. Lying is crazy stuff. Spending money on the lie is crazy stuff. And the fact others around her went along with this is crazy stuff.

But many like crazy stuff!!!

*sigh*

Wholeness with Healed Hearts is the Best Revenge. And you can challenge me on that.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!