Ooh Reception Hangry A-holes...It's Wedding Season

Ok, guys go read this Reddit, Am I the A-Hole post that was Trending on Twitter, recently. I need to talk to "Future Husband" for a moment.

Dear Future Husband,

When we send out the invitations and we agree with my plans, we must tell our guests when dinner will be served. Because if my plans are fulfilled and although it is beneficial to guests, I have a feeling 1/4 of them will still have complaints. Probably because of lack of reading. But we still will have to hear about it.

Just an FYI.

Also, the Elopement style is starting to look more & more attractive.

I Love You! *mwah*

I see this issue both ways. Before you guys start inquiring about my wants, let me tell you. I want a 2-hour brunch or happy hour (depending on the time of the wedding) buffet-style meal before the ceremony aka while I'm getting dressed. The reception will be cake, punch, & line dancing. So, I understand the AITA post about letting your guests know in the invitation about doing something non-traditional. But it does bear for me to ask what did the couple exactly say in said invitation.

Because saying, "Food will at the Venue" is not saying "Have change for the Vending Machine". But I also think the guests voicing gripes on Facebook or any social media after the wedding is Tacky. If they could keep their comments to themselves when it happened, then they could have stayed hush forevermore. Or at least, say something to the couple the next time they were in their presence. Airing your grievances on social media is cowardly.

Sounds like it were many a-holes at that nuptials. Maybe the couple could have had a few finger foods next to the cake, like the weddings I grew up attending. And maybe the guest would not have turned to social media to moan & groan.

Oh Well, what's done is done.

To the Bride & Groom 🥂

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!