The Tuck

Dallas Independent School District is getting rid of a very archaic part of the student dress code. Students will no longer be required to tuck in their shirts. Read the article HERE I was a senior in high school when the policy started to lightly be enforced. I never liked it. It's just not modest for everyone to tuck in their shirts.

It was around the time when some of the male students made sagging pants and no belts a hardcore fashion statement at school. Some schools made them put ropes around their pants and pull them up. Some did not. The rule made sense to those who wore sagging pants showing their underwear. Then the district decided to suggest "All Student's Shirts to be tucked in". I didn't take it seriously. It was a rare & force occasion for me to tuck in my blouses when I was younger and even then I pulled them out some to make me look more flattering my clothes. The president of the Mother's Board of my childhood church disapproved of it. I dislike ushering near her. She was always stuffing more of my blouse further in my skirt.

The Dean of Instruction of my school must have been kin to her because she saw me one day in 1996, 10 minutes before the first bell, and was outraged. "Young Lady, You Are In Violation Of The Dress Code". I thought it was my skirt. I'm 5'2" with short legs. 2 inches above the knee or the fingertip rules always got me stopped by some teacher but my mini skirt was within the boundaries. Short legs can come in handy. Oh but not this day. She wanted me to tuck in my shirt. I tucked it in and my skirt didn't have belt loops and a belt. It was an elastic waist skirt. With wide eyes, she said, "Let's go to your counselor's office. Because you are not dressed properly and you need to go home". We get to my counselor's office. My counselor asked what was the problem because she had no clue why I was in there if it was not scheduled issues or college-related. The Dean ranted about my outfit and my counselor started laughing. I was told by her to tuck my top in. Then she turn me around and showed the dean my backside. "When she fights because somebody squeezes her side rolls or rubs her hip. Because she will hit them in response. Send her home then. That's what is going to happen if she tucks her shirt in". She looked at me "Go to class". I untucked my top and went on my way. I didn't see the dean until graduation, months later when I shook her hand like the rest of the administration. A few years later DISD and other area school districts made it a rule.

I know the Dean who was very tall and thin did not understand until that day that plus-size, wide hip, large-busted student should not tuck in her clothes. DISD didn't either. My counselor knew she was sending me into a land that included name-callers, junior perverts, and mean girls call a school hallway. With already being awkward, nerdy, and sarcastic I didn't need the drama just because of an untucked top in a place where that was not even a "real" law yet. DISD finally saw it like my counselor and I knew it. School is hard enough without added pressure. One might say "It's just a tucked-in shirt". Say that to the kid who has the back fat, large buttocks, and love handles getting physically harassed every day. All because it is out there for some cruel kid(s) to pick at like it's their right to do so.

So kudos DISD for loosing up on tucked-in shirts. Now belts still need to be enforced because sagging is still an issue. Everyone does not look flattering with a tucked-in shirt. I wonder if that Dean heard this decision and remembered me and the skirt incident. Probably not! LoL

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