I Don't Believe in the Zodiac

Now before the non-Christian, open-minded community just sum this post by saying "Oh that because she is a Christian", let me be snarky. Everything a Christian is for or against is not because they are a Christian. The Lord gave me a brain to make choices but didn't he give you one also.

If you are fortunate to be a "friend" of mine on Facebook, you know I don't believe on the zodiac. I just researched my timeline (TL) and their many posts about my disbelief. But in all fairness, Facebook is the place where MANY of the zodiac memes are posted & reposted (two particular "signs" are really active in posting & reposting, no shade). So more than likely, I'm a little more vocal about my opinion there.

I don't understand how the stars can "sum" up everybody in the world by these 12 signs. I just think because it is told that people under their symbols portray certain characteristics, most for whatever reasons decided to believe what is told. No One is all their sign is described to be. People & their lives are much more fluid than their "zodiac sign", in my opinion.

I wasn't born a skeptic to the zodiac. I read a book that mentioned my sign in high school. Oh, what is my sign?

♫Meta Gemini, ooh what a sex drive

She wanted it from the front, back, left and the right

Baby, I will guarantee to give you everything your body's missin'♫

I'm being silly. I am a Gemini but I Can Not & Will Not confirm or deny Tyrese's description. LoL, I can confirm that I never slept with him or the other writers so, the lyric is not about me. But like that song lyric, that was the jist of what I read years ago. So, I decided to do a little more research and I then decided to read my horoscope for a moment. Its accuracy in my life was maybe 20% at that time. I decided then to never fully identify as a Gemini. The best way I can explain it is copy & paste the "Gemini Traits" and show with the colors, Blue (correct), Red (incorrect) & Purple (maybe-ish) on if my life matches.

GEMINI TRAITS
Strengths: gentle, affectionate, curious, adaptable, ability to learn quickly and exchange ideas
Weaknesses: Nervous, inconsistent, indecisive
Gemini likes: Music, books, magazines, chats with nearly anyone, short trips around the town
Gemini dislikes: Being alone, being confined, learning, such as school, repetition, and routine

Expressive and quick-witted, Gemini represents two different sides of personality and you will never be sure with whom you will face. Gemini can be sociable, communicative and ready for fun, while on the other hand, it can be very serious, thoughtful, restless and even indecisive.

Gemini sign means that sometimes people born under this sign have a feeling that their other half is missing, so they are forever seeking new friends, mentors, and colleagues.

Love & Sex
Communication is very important for Gemini, as much as physical contact, and when those two things combine nothing is an obstacle. Inquisitive and always ready to flirt, Gemini will spend a lot of time with different lovers until they find the right one, who can match his intellect and energy.

Friends & Family
Those born under the Gemini sign are very social people and love to spend time with friends and family. Gemini has friends in abundance and loves to chat and be understood, so one of the qualities that he seeks in others is good communication. Without a clear flow of conversation, Gemini will quickly lose interest in communication. Family is important to them, especially those family members that are similar to them. Friendship with siblings is very common for Gemini, and the time spent with them is precious. Family responsibilities often represent a challenge for Gemini, but they always know how to cope with it.

According to this, we All are...
And what is a lair?

Attracting the Gemini Woman
If you want to attract a Gemini woman, you will have to be able to keep up with her dual nature. Gemini women can be passionate and gentle one moment, and aloof and distant the next. This is a result of their natural tendency to be wary of love.
A woman born under the Gemini zodiac sign can be very enthusiastic, witty, intellectual and soft-spoken. One of the best Gemini characteristics is their open-mindedness.
Although a Gemini woman is usually quick to have sex, getting in a serious and committed relationship will take time and patience. However, once she finds a man who can satisfy her sexual and intellectual desires, the Gemini woman will be the one to suggest to stop dating and start being a couple.
A woman born under the Gemini star sign can be the ideal partner for you, only if you are able to stick with her constant need to discover new mental and sexual challenges. On the other hand, sex with a Gemini woman will never be boring.
The Gemini woman is very intelligent, so if you can teach her about something that she doesn't know, you will impress her and increase the chances of winning her over. Overall, dating a Gemini woman can be a very interesting and challenging experience.

Ok, I'll hit on some of these Red highlights. "Dislikes learning, such as school" made me laugh so hard. I am much more book smart than street smart. Matter of fact some of my "street smarts" was read about in a book. "People born under this sign have a feeling that their other half is missing" & "Gemini has friends in abundance" is false. The "lonely type" of people worry me, let alone me being that type of person. I've been voluntarily single more than I have been in a relationship. I don't need or have a lot of friends. I'm not a trusting person so, "Chats with nearly anyone" is not my truth. I don't meet strangers but that is not because of me talking first to anyone. My friendly face & nature attract people. "Gemini will spend a lot of time with different lovers until they find the right one, who can match his intellect and energy" & "A Gemini woman is usually quick to have sex". I am glad for the word usually. I'm Team Celibate and quick & lot of time with different lovers is nowhere near my life.

But yeah, it is descriptions like those that prove to me not to believe the zodiac. I don't knock anyone who does. I've had several people quickly sum me up because the stars say this about because of my birthday. I can't & won't judge them. I'm open-minded enough to think fluidly about a person's life.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms