Showing posts with label June. Show all posts
Showing posts with label June. Show all posts

Saturday, June 16, 2018

Conclusions After the 3rd Decade Around Sun



I Am A Weird Limited Edition.

I Am a Christian and Will Live As I Define It.

My Interests Are Extremely Different Than My Peers.

That Armadillo Ball I Form into in order to say No is helping me think.

My ability to empathize is shrinking. I really am only at a Buck Up, Buttercup level.

Colorful Outfits, Slips, Auntie Pumps, & Wedges is My Fashion Mindset. And My King Will Love Me In & Out of Them.

I'll Probably Want to Go to Huge Amusement Parks, Vegas, Times Square, or Atlantic City Before Going on a Cruise or the Beach. Those are relaxing for me.

I Still Want to Go to Australia.

Pop Culture is Dangerous.

I Like Action Films But They Are Very Loud in Theaters.

I Miss Going to the Movies All the Time.

Brunch is My Favorite Meal Despite It Being Trendy.

What Anybody Thinks About Me Really is Not Mt Business.

Being a "Good Girl" is an Annoying Stereotype, That Most Don't Want to Understand.

"Don't Believe Me Just Watch" Was Probably the Mantra for This Decade of Life.

Still, Have to Learn From My Mistakes & Choices. And Like Most, Truthfully I'm Regretfully Only Doing the Basic Work.

Wrong is Wrong and That Can Include Me.

I Should Have Named My Company, Fat Nutritionist.

My Knowledge of & Relationship with Food Must Match One Day.

It Was Refreshing to Find the Terms, Ambivert & Xennial.

Can't Box Me In.

I Love Being the Only Person Defining Me.

Well, Happy 40th Birthday to Me! Where Will My Future Thoughts Take Me? I Can't Wait to Find Out. Oh Yeah, Being Another Decade Doesn't Mean I Won't Listen to My Favorite Song!!!

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!!!

Saturday, June 25, 2016

The Audience at Life's Performances.

Life is a theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is holy enough and healthy enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives.
Some people in your life need to be loved from a distance.

It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships, friendships, fellowships, and family!
Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention to Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are just going downhill?

When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have drama or don't understand, know and appreciate you and the gift that lies within you?
Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

The more you seek God and the things of God, the more you seek quality, the more you seek not just the hand of God but the face of God, the more you seek things honorable, the more you seek growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

You cannot change the people around you...but you can change the people you are around!
Ask God for wisdom and discernment and choose wisely the people who sit in the FRONT ROW of your life.

Remember that FRONT ROW seats are for special and deserving people and those who sit in your FRONT ROW should be chosen carefully.
Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW


Even though I celebrate my birthday all month long, my official events with my June Birthday Bestie, T.T. have come to a close. Every year within the past 6 years maybe, I am reminded of this poem above, which was emailed to me years ago. Growing up, I celebrated my birthdays traveling a lot. My birthday would usually fall during the week of the National Baptist Sunday School & Baptist Training Union (BTU) Congress. I was an attendee, for some of those years. One year, we were traveling back home from Los Angeles and at midnight, a charter bus full of church members broke out into a round of "Happy Birthday". I think that was my 13th birthday. In my twenties, people would be nice and throw me dinner or a party but invariably somebody would be upset by the end of the event. And even though my loved ones meant well, by age 27, I refused for anyone else to plan an event ever again.

As I get older I realize all the people that cause the major issues at 20s events are people that are not in my life now. As I get older, life has changed for me so, I know it has changed for other people. Sometimes the people at Act 5 of Life's performance are not around for Act 10.
Some left because you are not their type of play. Some acted up and the ushers had to escort them out of the Life Theater. This goes for the people on the Front Row to Last Row.

My birthday is not limited to Front Row people but they are the people I think of first. Over the years, that front row has changed. I remember one birthday, only two Front Row people were celebrating in person with me (It was a Monday). That was 8 years ago.
One is no longer a front-row person. She's not watching my performance anymore. I realized that I was not her type of theatrical work and she was not mine. Probably like the poem says, I should have observed some things earlier and switched that seat some time ago.

But That's Life!!!

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Juneteenth and the Heart That Doesn't Pump Soda (Healthy Holiday Recipes)

Okay, I am Black & Texan so, I have had my fair share of Juneteenth celebrations in my life. I remember my first Juneteenth concert. I was 12 and was going to see the R&B group Hi-Five at the Black Rodeo in Fair Park with my sister & her friends. I shaved & nicked my legs so I could look grown-up up. Then it started storming so, the concert got canceled. Yeah, I still shave (not nick) my legs. Because I am a grown-up. LoL

Oh, what is Juneteenth? Maybe somebody doesn’t know. Every year, I find another soul that doesn't know. Juneteenth is the oldest known celebration commemorating the ending of slavery in the United States. In 1862, the North won the Civil War and President Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation that freed the slaves. It was effective January 1, 1863 (Research the history of Watch Night services in black churches) But the news didn’t reach Texas until June 19, 1,865 on the coast of Galveston. Yes, the news got to Texas, two years later. Texas was not a battle zone so, it took it a while. Yes, I am giving you the textbook version. *wink* You don't need my opinion (Shh! I might give it to you on Twitter). Juneteenth is a ceremonial celebration in Black communities, that was of course started in Texas that spread to the other states by former Texans. According to Wikipedia, In 1980, Texas was the first state to establish Juneteenth as a state holiday under legislation introduced by freshman Democratic state representative Al Edwards. Juneteenth is a "partial staffing holiday" in the state; government offices do not close but some employees use a "floating holiday" to take the day off. By 2008, nearly half of US states observed the holiday as a ceremonial observance. As of May 2014, when the Maryland legislature approved official recognition of the holiday, 43 of the 50 U.S. states and the District of Columbia have recognized Juneteenth as either a state holiday or ceremonial holiday, a day of observance. States that do not recognize it are Arizona, Hawaii, Montana, New Hampshire, North Dakota, South Dakota, and Utah.

Most Juneteenth festivities are small in comparison to other US observations. They may include rodeos, concerts, self-empowerment rallies & prayer services. Barbeque, fish, and lots of vegetable dishes are prepared in the many that our ancestors of the time may have prepared then. I know in my home we eat a soul food-like meal in observance. The most synonymous item to Juneteenth is Red Soda. And Yes, there is history to the soda. Slaves were free. They could get work & get paid. They could get married legally. And they could buy an expensive novelty, Red Soda Water (that’s what we call it here in DFW). Some say that the red is a symbol of the blood, the life force of the slaves. Last year, I was a judge for a Juneteenth food contest. I was actually judging vegetarian side dishes. Well, I wanted something other than the water, I was drinking to cleanse my palate between dishes. I forgot where I was and went looking for something other than Red soda water. Then I was disturbed. All this emphasis on healthy food dishes but the only drinks available are soda & water. So, I decided to make this blog post dedicated to those of us who want another option. A couple of the recipes even have a little sugar in them. But if you don’t consume sugar at all, just replace it with your choice of sweetening alternative.

No drink screams summer like Lemonade. The cut-up lemons look like little rays of sunshine. Little meanings of a new day for our freed ancestors. The "Red" soda that was coveted at the time was strawberry. Add strawberries to the lemons and make a crimson-colored, refreshing drink.

"Red" Lemonade
Ingredients
• 8 large strawberries, halved
• 2 tablespoons white sugar
• 7 cups water, divided
• 1 cup white sugar
• 2 cups freshly squeezed lemon juice

Directions
1. Place strawberries in a blender; top with 2 tablespoons sugar.
2. Pour 1 cup water over sugared strawberries.
3. Blend until strawberry chunks transform into juice.
4. Combine strawberry juice, 6 cups water, 1 cup sugar, and lemon juice in a large pitcher; stir until blended.
5. Chill before serving.

I love drinking Hibiscus tea, but I'm a tea drinker. I think I drink most teas except Southern sweet tea (Yep, I need some lemon in that) and Rooibos/Red Bush Tea (The good show, The No.1 Ladies' Detective Agency's choice in tea is sketchy) Hibiscus has a tart cranberry taste. And like ginger, hibiscus tea aids in digestion. It also helps lowers cholesterol & the treatment of hypertension (*hint, hint*). So if you serve this fresh drink, you'll be giving your guests a little health benefit also. 


Hibiscus-and-Ginger Iced Tea
Ingredients
• 1⁄2 cup water
• 1⁄2 cup sugar
• One 3" piece of fresh ginger, peeled and grated
• 4 hibiscus tea bags (I like TAZO)
• 8 cups water, room temperature
• Ice

Directions
Make the ginger simple syrup:
1. Combine the sugar and 1⁄2 cup of water in a 2-quart saucepan.
2. Bring to a boil and let syrup cook for 3 minutes, stirring until all of the sugar is dissolved.
3. Remove the pot from heat and add the grated ginger.
4. Let syrup cool completely and strain. Set the syrup aside.

Make the hibiscus tea:
1. In a 4-quart saucepan, pour 4 cups of water over the tea bags and place the pot over low heat.
2. Bring the water to a slow simmer and let cook for 5 minutes.
3. Turn off the heat and let the tea steep for another 5 minutes.
4. Strain into a pitcher and add in the remaining 4 cups of water.
5. Fill the pitcher with ice.

To serve, pour tea into glasses and stir in ginger syrup, sweetening to taste.

It's June and watermelon will be at most outside events. Yes, it being a fruit salad is typical but why not make it a cooling drink?

Watermelon Picnic Punch

Ingredients
• 1 oblong seedless watermelon (about 8 pounds) • ¾ cup fresh lime juice • 2 cups club soda For garnish: (optional) • Fresh mint • Lime slices

Directions
1. Slice the top sixth of your watermelon lengthwise using a sharp knife. (Don’t worry if it’s not exactly a sixth. Just cut a “lid” off that exposes enough of the melon to hollow it out easily, okay?)
2. Scoop out the flesh of the watermelon until the rind is left with minimal pink showing.
3. Save the watermelon hull to be used as a "Bowl"
4. In a blender or food processor, puree the watermelon in batches.
5. Strain the puree through a fine-mesh strainer, and discard the solids. It should make about 9 cups of watermelon juice.
6. Pour the watermelon juice back into the watermelon punch bowl. Add the lime juice and club soda and stir to combine.
7. Add ice to your sparkling watermelon punch bowl & ladle punch over ice and garnish with fresh mint and lime slices.

I never said that I didn’t drink soda. One day, I won’t but I try to limit myself to 4 a week. I just don’t like being limited to it.  If our ancestors knew how crappy that stuff was, they probably would not have consumed it. But they didn’t, we do. They lived & died for us not to be limited. So, let’s break free!!!

Oh, this the last post of Healthy Holiday Recipe series. I thank you all for coming by and letting me whet your palate with my little knowledge. You guys do Not know what kind of blessing you guys have been. I will bring another food-related series soon, so stay tuned.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms!

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Choir Music (African-American Music Month



If you asked me what my Favorite style of Gospel music is, it would be Choir Music. If you could be a fly on the wall of my life, there will be many times you will see me playing director and/or lead singer while listening to Choir Music. Matter fact if there is a movie based on my life that needs to be a scene.

Okay I may have made the “style term" up but some of you that know what I am talking about. I Love a true Choir Song. Choirs sing lots of stuff but a true Choir Song only sounds good with a choir.

When I a child, I sang in the Junior Choir at my foundation church. I actually can't sing. Well I sing okay. So, I never lead a song. We used to tear the church up with a song by Deleon Richards called “Move on up the Mountain (http://youtu.be/jJQMjrcw0TE). I know this is solo track but in my heart this is choir music. I loved singing this song. When I got to be 9 years old I was finally was old to sing in the Dallas Baptist Ministerial Alliance Youth for Christ for the City Wide Revival. In the 80’s and 90’s that was the thing for us little church kids to do. For six weeks at the beginning of the year that was our social scene. I loved Youth for Christ. Even when I joined the Youth Ushers at Foundation church at age 11, I still sang in Youth for Christ. I sang until I was 15. Singing song like “Send Your Anointing” by TM Mass Youth Choir gave me great joy.

If you asked me the best choir music were written by three men. The late Milton Brunson
the late Walter Hawkins
and Hezekiah Walker wrote many of my favorite Choir songs.
Well indulge me a little bit and act like we are at a good ol’ church musical and click & listen to some of my favorite Choir songs (a few new ones but mostly old one) I have provided. I’ll admit, I had a great time finding this tunes too.

Processional Song
He's Worthy
http://youtu.be/guV94dARrgc

The Anthemn
Keep You Lamps - These kids remind me of my childhood
http://youtu.be/nC7RHZuP_Yw

Yes Lord - As Football Nerd said once "You have to be a heathen not to know this song" LMBO (You had to be there)
https://youtu.be/mqrH6C-3G1M

There is No Failure
http://youtu.be/Wz7BnJtDZiM

I'm Still Holding On
http://youtu.be/kN6Xt0o4cLQ

Fully Commited
http://youtu.be/qCV6kZY4Pv4

Call Him Up
http://youtu.be/KQdZIqTsOm0

There is No Greater Love
http://youtu.be/QVbThm_CzTE

When The Battle is Over
http://youtu.be/kL7xRI3_p58

God Will Take Care of You
http://youtu.be/HP2n9nDn7Oc

Jerusalem - My Foundation Church is one of the choirs featured on this song. The soloist was member and a family friend. RIP Thomas Wade
http://youtu.be/dPHT8KKU-Uo

The Vision
http://youtu.be/opawDQcMVzQ

Same God
https://youtu.be/80Dpek7qK08

Everybody Clap Your Hands
http://youtu.be/MDOhwnzbeJQ

Every Praise
http://youtu.be/UuuZMg6NVeA

Oh in the comments let me know what some of your favorites are. Share with me. LoL

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms