The Numbers Game!!! (Not Interested in Dating)

The clip is the first episode of a show I used to watch called "The Number" that was on one of my favorite Youtube channels Black & Sexy. Premise a couple have a monumental event happen in their life and they decide to reveal the number of sex partners each has had. One person's was higher than the other and the story goes awry from there. The show was a trip.

I am a person that does Not reveal her number or want to know a person's number.
Unless you are a virgin, the number of people you have slept with shouldn't matter if you care about the person. But with our minds warped by society's varied opinions about sexual purity, it does. Let me say this clearly. If your number is too Low, you are either Lying or Not Experienced Enough. If the number is too High, you are a Whore. We've all judged people by their "number". We've all been judged by our "number" Oh men yes, women judge you by the number of sexual partners you have. I knew a guy, I was not sleeping with and the topic came up and he said he tried to count but lost count.

I think that might have been the day I decided not to ever know "The Number" ever again. That was scary to know. Sad, but I judge part of that guy's life of how women he slept with. His number could have been low and he just had a bad memory.

But then what is low or high. Actually, in my humble opinion, there is no set acceptable number of sexual partners. Some people feel like any number over 1, the person you're married to is too many. Some people think over 10 is too many. Some people think if you've had under 10 sex partners by the time you are over age 25, you are lying. The proper "number" is based on opinions and not facts.

But factually, a person can sleep with one person and still contract HIV/AIDS. A person can sleep with many and still be sexually ignorant. A person can sleep with many and never contracted an STI or STD. A person can sleep with one person and be totally knowledgeable about all kinds of sexual information.

The "Number" doesn't tell you that and much much more important information that needs to be done when engaging in a sexual relationship.

That is why I want to deal with facts & Not numbers. Again 0 is the only number that reveals a fact.

So, yeah do Not ask me that. I'm Not telling you and I will not be asking you. I will be asking you more substantial questions that will determine whether we will ever sleep together. Hope that's not an issue. Hey, I'm celibate so, I can hold out. *smile*

Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms