Don't Care, A Yes, Yes-ish, and Probably a No (Answering Questions)

Slow question day, huh? You guys asked me about this pop cultured driven stuff. At least, it is stuff I somewhat knew about. Oh well! You gave me the bullet, so let me shoot out the answers. And yeah, I don't know why I used that analogy.

Q: Brandy ~vs~ Monica

Who is your choice?

A: I don't have a choice. Pop Culture has been Brandy or Monica since The Boy is Mine(Which is a jacked-up song for the sisterhood. I preferred It All Belongs to Me.).

And now Brandy keeps bringing it up. *insert the side-eye* Both sing great. I have preferred songs from both ladies. Monica & Brandy, Brandy & Monica is my choice.

Q: Do you think Charlamagne the god is a rapist?

A: Based on a podcast episode in 2015(Listen to the full episode HERE), he does with Andrew Shultz, he raped a woman. If your sexual partner at the moment is incoherent, they can't give you consent. Don't have sex with them. No One is that sexually aroused. Get a Yes before having sex(Gross, I Rhymed). No "Yes or No" is a No. Consent is Consent.

Q: Should Drake pay Shiggy for making his song "In My Feelings" popular?

A: I think "should pay" isn't the attitude we should take. Drake didn't hire him to take the challenge.

But I do think a "Love Offering" for Shiggy would be nice. Oh and Drake, Keke is married to my cousin D.D. And family is not the type to play with lustful interlopers.

Q: Would you ever throw your panties on stage at a concert?

A: No, I will not throw what I wear on my bottom onto a stage.  I pay a lot for underwear. A pack of 8 is not cheap. (Yes, you are supposed to be laughing) With that said, would I buy a cheap pair out of the dollar store, write my number on them, & throw those? Well, my name still isn't Chrissy Teigen nor has Jazz from the Dru Hill yet wait for me to arrive at the marital altar. Hey if you're an FBF, you saw Dru Hill pass by my table in Virginia. I could have...
So, that answer seems to still be a No.

Send your questions to C.OUT.SPOKEN.DIVA@gmail.com. As you see, I will answer them. Much to my chagrin, even the pop culture related questions will get an answer. I can imagine the people that sent in these are cracking up reading this post. But send in your questions.

As Always Talking to You In Adult Terms 

Sub-Wear (What I Wear)

Ok this one will be quick. I needed a piece before pants because I need some pants & jeans pictures. LoL You’ll find out later. I probably look like this under my clothes.

My basic underwear is bra, camisole/tank top and panties. Everything else is extra.

Bras: I only wear white, beige, & black bras. Nothing special about my bras.
Panties: Only wear white or black briefs, boyshorts, & thongs. When I was a little girl I wore all the colors & patterns that I could stand and made the "As soon as I get Grown" promise that I would not wear them. That is one promise I kept.
Camisoles & Tank Tops: They come is all the colors and patterns. I own them in all kinds of materials from cotton blends to lace. Like I said in the top blog, I wear them for modesty. People don't need to see my cleavage, big busted or not. Nor do they need to see my bra through some of my shirts. Sometimes a shirts is a little thin in quality so a cami or a tank give me extra protection.

Other Underwear Options I have other post about some of them check them out HERE & HERE

Girdle/ShapeWear: Some of you wear Spanx.Those are cute and trendy and I no use for them. I wear a Girdle [gur-dl].

 
The new trendy word is shapewear but it's still a girdle. Those are two forms the shorts and a body slip. Why do I wear one? So I don't jiggle in my clothes. This picture right here is HogWash to me!!! I don't want to jiggle

Slips: I'll say it again. If you wave your butt in front of me asking if I can see through your dress I tell you Need To or Should Have put on one of these.

I know your mother and grandmothers make you wear them and you made the "As soon as I get Grown" about wearing slips. But trust me slips Reduces that see through worry and keeps you dress from crawling up. Also it keeps you from asking smart mouth anything about what I think.

Stockings: I still wear them with my heels.

My feet sweat,my feet slide around and that makes my feet hurt. I think most people think of stockings they think of the Reinforced toe kind. or But they are many kinds. There are the sandal toe.

Still full coverage but not the ugly extra material. There are the toeless stockings. I like these because You can see my cute painted toes better in the summer. I also wear knee highs under pants. 

Wearing a full stocking is too hot under pants. Knee High are more comfortable.

So that is what this chick looks like under her clothes. Sorry, you had to use you imagination but this is the web. I don't have time to find out I'm on some nudey site because of my underwear blog post!!! Y'all didn't want to see that anyway.

Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms