Y'all have noticed it has been some serious topics in the current pop culture headlines I have not spoke about. The Bill Cosby Rape/Drugging Allegations is one of those headlines. I was waiting on a few certain events to happen. Today, I finally heard what I waiting on. So now I will give my two cents.
Yes, like many of us I was shocked when it all first came out. I hate to hear about rape & molestation stories, period. Then to hear Bill Cosby to possibly be involved in these horrendous acts. It make me frown.
The number of women accusing him rises every week. The stories about him being a secretly known philanderer that is quick to unzip his pants in the entertainment industry.
And unlike another accused rapist, Cee-Lo Green (who I have unfanned him liked R. Kelly), Cosby is being quiet. Except to speak on how his wife (who is kind of vague in speaking about her feeling at this point) is taking it all of this
"Love and the strength of womanhood. Let me say it again, love and the strength of womanhood. And, you could reverse it, the strength of womanhood and love.
and how expects neutrality of the black media.
"I only expect our black media to uphold the standards of excellent journalism. And when you do that, you go in with a neutral mind."
Now, I am also not saying all the women are liars. I will never ask any of these question.
-Why are they saying something decades later?
Because these women (if not lying) are a part of decades of the silent victim era (I made that term up). Victims of rape and other abusive crimes are now encouraged to talk about it now. And some encouragement, people are still asking rape victims disbelieving questions.
-Where is the proof?
Who keeps decades old proof? Again unless there is a film reel of the encounter yet to appear, I doubt any of the alleged victims have proof. And if any of the accusers have a Bill Cosby semen stained item...I leave that alone.
-What are the victims motives?
Maybe to get the truth (if it is) out. Just because a court can't try him, doesn't mean can could be guilty. If he did do these horrendous acts, it needs to be known. At least if it is known, this can be avoided some. People know what to be aware. He offers a lady a drink maybe she needs to decline.
I won't ask any of that. Actually those are a few reasons why people (women & men) don't report rape.
So, what was I waiting on? Bill Cosby prides himself on being charitable to the field of education. I felt like if anything would hurt him the most, would be the day the schools he and his wife give to sever ties because of allegations.
When I saw alma mater, Temple pull away, with the news of his resignation from the Board of Trustees, I knew the proverbial dominos would start to fall. I really had interest in watching for one of the Cosby benefitted HBCUs to pull back. Let's face it, Historically Black Colleges & Universities don't have the funding most public & pricier private schools get. So, if a HBCU cut away even an inch it would scream MAJOR to me. That means they would have to walk away from lot of needed dollars. Money that maybe hard to replace. Money that might shut a department or some departments down. Well, Spelman yelled and I heard them.
The historically black, liberal arts women’s college in Atlanta indefinitely suspended the William and Camille Olivia Hanks Cosby Endowed Professorship, which was funded by a $20 million gift by the Cosbys in 1987.
“The current context prevents us from continuing to meet these objectives fully. Consequently, we will suspend the program until such time that the original goals can again be met.”
Spelman College didn't say whether it would change the name of its academic center, which also bears Cosby’s name. We shall see. I heard that scream and I tweeted about it.
The rapper, Nelly swiped a ATM card down the butt of a female dancer in one of his videos.
The women of Spelman felt that degrading to women. They would not let him have blood marrow drive, in order to find a match for his ailing sister on their campus until they sat down and had a talk. Nelly didn't want to talk and no blood marrow drive was had. If they took a stand on that you know something was going to be done about the Cosby allegations. Spelman had to protect their image. Their value could not be based the money on a possible criminal (if the allegations are true) or a possible philanderer (if they are not true but he had least slept with any if not all the accusers). $20 million dollars is a lot of money to give up. But the principles & standards this college stands for should be worth much more. Spelman has started detachment from the Cosbys, will Morehouse College & Fisk University and others join them? It will be an interesting narrative if they do.
Like I said I don't know what to truly believe at this point. I only want to believe in the truthful facts.
Whether the truth comes out on this or the other side of God's glory, it will come out. As an educated person, it just hurts to see any higher institutions of learning having to make these kind of decisions. Decisions based on possible vile & vulgar acts towards humanity. I guess no one associated with this case will walk away unscathed.
Well, in my home it is almost time for me to put up the Christmas tree.
I Photobombed them last Christmas
Alura & Monkey Toes reminded me this past weekend. Monkey Toes kept asking me did I need help this year. I told him I will let him know. A few years ago they had to help me put the tree up. I was battling an arthritic attack & a cold most of that December. So, when my sister needed me to watch them that Saturday,
I put them to work. LoL They had fun.
Christmas is at my Grandmother's home. I stay there also so, pretty much do most of the cleaning & decorating. Christmas is not my favorite holiday. Avid readers of this blog know it is Easter. Christmas is a little tiring. But I do keep up some of the traditions of my childhood. The tree goes up on the 2nd Sunday of December. It was the only Sunday we didn't have a church program.
That chair my brother is sitting on, We still have it.
When I was a child, I had a crew. My younger cousin D.D., my sister A, and myself with my brother G as our cheerleader and my youngest aunt (D.D.'s mom (Let's call her, Stump on here)) as the supervisor put the tree. We had so much fun. Yes, those are candy canes on the tree. We still put those on the tree, Christmas morning.
I already have this year's dozen. Come to my house and you will see a few 30+, 40+, & 50+-year-old people tackle the tree after gifts are exchanged to get to the candy canes.
Another tradition is playing Christmas music while putting the tree up and cooking Christmas dishes. G loves Christmas music. One year it was February before we could turn it off. My grandfather would put on records and cassettes all during December. We would just bop around the house to the beats. Now it might be traditional to play music but we rarely heard the standards like "Jingle Bells" or "Frosty the Snowman". We listened to "Christmas Blues" by the Ramsey Lewis Trio & "Merry Christmas, Baby" by BB King. My grandfather & I Only wanted to hear "Santa Baby" sung by Eartha Kitt. We would sneer our noses up at Madonna's version. LoL My mother loved "Silent Night" by The Temptations. My grandmother would tap her toes to the Fairfield Four sing "Last Month of the Year". My grandfather with his deep bass voice would start singing. Stump and A would bring out their records and tapes too. Soon we would be grooving to "This Christmas" by Donny Hathaway & "Give Love on Christmas Day" both Jackson 5 & New Edition versions. Yep, Stump thought the Jacksons sang it best & A thought Ralph & them crooned it better. Eventually, rap tunes were introduced, and "Christmas in Hollis" by Run DMC was added to the list. One year in high school, I bought my grandmother, Handel's Messiah: A Soulful Celebration. Well, the "Hallelujah Chorus" became a household favorite. And over the years I have added newer tunes to my playlist. When "Joy to the World" by Whitney Houston & the Georgia Mass Choir comes on, I have to stop decorating and direct my imaginary choir. LoL I also added some comedic Christmas songs and other holiday songs commemorating Chanukah & New Year's Eve. Oh and like K-nock of the Quad City DJs, I still want a man with a lot of money like she requested in "What You Want For Christmas".
Now out of all those songs and more that are played during December, my favorite is sung by many but the Reba McEntire version is the one I love. It is "Mary Did You Know". I love this song. It is not Christmas until I hear this song. This song makes you think. I really could ask Mary all of this if I had the chance.
When she looked at little Jesus asleep on the hay did really know she gave birth to Greatness. We all know she knew what manner of man he was once he got older. She herself asked him to fix the wine issue at the wedding. But this song asks Mary about her mindset shortly after she delivered a healthy bundle of joy. Most mothers are full of joy as she probably was. This song just asks Mary had she really realized the depth of her conversation with Gabriel the Angel.
When she saw the angel, she was troubled at his words. She thought about what had been said. The angel said to her, “Mary, do not be afraid. You have found favor with God. See! You are to become a mother and have a Son. You are to give Him the name Jesus. He will be great. He will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the place where His early father David sat. He will be King over the family of Jacob forever and His nation will have no end.” Mary said to the angel, “How will this happen? I have never had a man.” The angel said to her, “The Holy Spirit will come on you. The power of the Most High will cover you. The holy Child you give birth to will be called the Son of God. Luke 1:29-35
This song wonders if while she was counting his ten fingers and toes and enjoying the moment with Joseph did she take into account the things a few but especially Isaiah prophesied about.
Nevertheless, there will be no more gloom for those who were in distress. In the past he humbled the land of Zebulun and the land of Naphtali, but in the future he will honor Galilee of the nations, by the Way of the Sea, beyond the Jordan— The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned. Isaiah 9:1-2
For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; And the government will rest on His shoulders; And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6
But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him, and with his stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5
It's just an honest song full of questions for Mary but also full of the wondrous acts of Jesus Christ. It tugs at my heart and yeah I really want to know "Mary Did You Know"?
So, on this 2nd Sunday of December, I will put up our family's Christmas tree. Probably start moving furniture Friday night.As long as I have my Christmas mug full of tea or cocoa, my tunes & my memories of yore, I will get it done. Oh if you want to hear some of what is on my playlist go to the LINK and bop along with G & me. Yeah, he's still the cheerleader waiting on the lights to come on.
What's your favorite Holiday song(s)? Let me know in the comments.
Told you in the post about my favorite Christmas TV adto be on the lookout for my favorite Christmas movies & songs. So here is the post on "Scrooged".
I'll say it again I am a fan of a few, very few remakes & reboots. Scrooged, a modernized version of Charles Dickens' A Christmas Carol is one of those few. I Love this movie!!! It came out in the late 80s and it gives me warm memories of my childhood with my older sister Aunja, my cousin D.D. and I watching it on cable. Even as a child, I got the jokes.
Basically, Frank Cross, played by Bill Murray controls a US TV station that is preparing a live adaptation of Dickens' Christmas Carol. Frank's childhood wasn't a particularly loving one, and so he doesn't really appreciate the Christmas spirit. With the aid of the ghosts of Christmas past, present, and future, Frank understands he must change. It has a Marly character.
The Bob Cratchit character is played by Alfre Woodard and she has a mute son named Calvin instead of a Tiny Tim on crutches.
Of course, there are the ghosts.
Past
Present
Future
My favorite ghost is Present. The little fairy knocked the crap out of Frank Cross to get his attention. Oh, she pokes him in the eye, punches him in the jaw, and bashes him with a toaster.
If Carol Kane can act in all the movies she wants, she will always be the Ghost of Christmas Present to me. This movie also was packed with the all-stars of the time. Buddy Hackett from Beverly Hillbillies, Olympian Mary Lou Retton, Jazz artist Miles Davis & David Sanborn, and even the Solid Gold Dancers
(I'm telling my age. LoL).
"Scrooged" also dealt with some social issues that are still very relevant today.
Corporate Greed
Unemployment
Homelessness
A Struggling widow trying to make ends meet
Childhood Mutism
How to get antlers to stay on a mouse LoL
The movie may be dated, now but no one can dispute that "Scrooged" has the best endings ever. I mean with the great song "Put a Little Love in Your Heart" by Al Green & Annie Lennox in it (Hear my jam HERE), how can it Not be the best. Spoiler Alert!!! A touching moment with Tim and somebody goes to heaven.
Again I Love this Movie. Yes, I will be watching it this holiday season. I own it!!!
Another Great Christmas movie from my childhood that I love is
"The Best Christmas Pageant Ever"!!! Cute movie!!! The Herdmans are the worst children in history! They use profanity, they smoke, they torture animals and other people. Oh, and they want to be in the Christmas pageant at church, even though they have never heard the story of Christmas. This movie is the epitome of the true meaning of Christmas. You can find it on YouTube or DVD.
Well, that leaves My Favorite song to post. I'll give you a hint! Reba McEntire sings it. Leave your answers in the comment box. Oh, and What are your favorite holiday movies?
Hey guys!!! How was your Thanksgiving? Mine when well. A very normal day with family and family friends. Oh, and I LOVE normal.
Even got to watch my church service online. Planned the Christmas meal. We will be doing Mexican again like last year. I'll do the rice. Might also try out a small pot of the Ginger Rice that I love a Blue Mesa Grill on the family. Then it was me, "Piece of April" and foot tub with hot water Epsom salt, Isopropyl alcohol, mouthwash & vinegar in it. If you want your feet to fall in love with you put that in your foot bath. Oh, I did feel sad at one point. But I sat with it and made it through.
Prayerfully, I will get through the Bayou Classic (Grambling & Southern) without hard grief. Football Nerd played for Grambling and always reminded me to watch the game. ☺♥☺
Well, I mentioned in the Are We Skipping Thanksgiving post, my favorite Christmas commercial is the Hershey Kisses Handbell Choir. That commercial gives me fond memories of elementary school. Every year in the 5th & 6th grades we got to pick three choices for Fine Art classes. Then we were assigned to a class out of those choices. Every year, I would put down
1. Piano
2. Orchestra
3. General Music
Every year I was placed in General Music, As a preteen, I would feel slighted. Now, as an adult, I feel blessed to have been assigned to that class. In that class, I learned true music appreciation. I learn the history of music. We studied a few operas like Madame Butterfly. I learned to sing many songs. I also know how to read music and play the following instruments
Tambourine
Glockenspiel
Xylophone
Handbells
Recorder
I still have my recorder. It's in my mom's (my former) bottom dresser drawer. Who knows "Twinkle Twinkle"? Let's meet up!!! We can have a jam session. LoL
The Hershey Kisses Christmas commercials also remind me of a time & a place where a heavy, big busted, awkward & clumsy preteen could find a tad bit of refuge. For some odd reason in that class, I was never teased. Our teacher was the best. She was firm but caring. I sometimes ask one of my cousins who was once a music colleague of hers at their church how is she doing and he fills me in. I just had a great time in a class I didn't realize at the time would help shape me culturally. I remember taking Music Appreciation at UT-Arlington and knowing a lot of what my professor would present. I made an A in that class. I have to say Elementary General Music may have been a part of getting that A.
I love to see handbell choirs. One of the best parts about catching a Christmas Eve service on TV. If the church doesn't have a Christmas handbell choir, why are you on my TV? The gloves and rhythmic ringing put a childlike grin on my face. If you ever see me when that commercial comes one you would get a kick out of me. I am the silver kiss directing the other bells. I learned that tune as a kid too. Give me some sheet music. I have some gloves.
Yes, be on the lookout for posts about my favorite Christmas Song & Movie. The Song may not shock you but the Movie might stump you. Let's just say it is an 80s reboot. Well off that watch some TV. Maybe the Hershey Kisses Christmas ad might come on and I will get to direct.
I finally left that place Thursday with a shocked & confused looked on my face. I was perplexed. Not only did Shonda Rhimes debunked All my Theories, she also gave me more to think about.
Grey's Anatomy
First I want to give Shonda Rhimes a Great BIG Thank You for the breakup of Callie & Arizona.
I hated them together. I don't like Arizona. She is a good pediatric surgeon but spoiled & selfish person. Callie can do so much better. I Do Not want them back together. Please Keep Them Divorced!!!
Arizona will be busy anyway. She has to learn from the great Dr. Herman before she dies.
Or will she??? Amelia Shepherd feel likes she could turn the illness around for her. Will she accept the offer especially since Arizona snuck and got her personal records to give or Amelia.
Richard & Maggie are finally starting to heal. Got a little shaky there for a moment. After she told him off on the Shepherd's porch,
I just knew it was going to be 2015 before she would come around. But I told you Meredith would be the common thread to mend all of this. I loved when Maggie told Meredith she was excited about dinner at her house because as a single person she was lonely. I really loved when Meredith took her to the Grey home and let her know that she was welcomed to use that as a loneliness refuge.
Well Ellis Grey's daughters are playing nicely. Now can we get her oldest girl's marriage out of limbo when we come back. I knew he going to take the job. Meredith kept on pushing him.
I predict they will drag this out until the finale. And if the rumors about Patrick Dempsey leaving the show, a Divorce decree will be sent to Meredith.
The baby of April & Jackson is having bone problem in the womb. And who knows this, Stephanie Edwards, Jackson's ex.
I will predict there will be drama. The words jealous and bitter will thrown Edwards way. Jackson & April will fight about what plan of action should be done about the fate of Baby Japril. Catherine Jackson & Karen Kepner will join forces and become Super Grandmas to keep some sanity to these awaiting parents. I know that is frightening
Scandal
Ok I was wrong about a Mellie-Olivia showdown. But that Mellie-Elizabeth showdown was the best.
I can't wait for the a Mellie-Andrew showdown. Mellie is going spit fire upon this man's head. Mellie is Back!!!
Okay Olivia Pope has been Kidnapped. The Fixer has been stolen. First episode back, All hands will on be deck. That will include Papa Rowan/Eli Pope.
Oh Fitz & Jake will need his help. But when they find out Papa Pope's help comes at a price or he is actually working with Andrew & Elizabeth to set the "Fixer-Napping" up, they better not be shocked. If they are I will them that "Shut all That Crying Up" look of Maya Pope.
Oh and Huck's wife will come around and allow him slowly back in. Let's just hope it's not too late to save the mental stability of little Javi. He can't unsee his daddy kill that man and that can mess a kid up.
How to Get Away With Murder
Okay yes my theory was debunked.
Now for my theory. Sam Keating's murder may have been an accident. He goes to confront Rebecca and it got violent and he's dead. She called Wes and the other students and they "help" her. Annalise Keating does Not know her husband is dead, right now. The point of the show is "How we, Keating's client & students got away with the murder & cover up of her husband". This will be a big cat & mouse game with one question, Will Annalise Keating ever find out?
All Sam had to do was die the first time when he fell chasing Rebecca and the others. The accident part would not have been so off. As for Annalise not know well she's like Papa Pope on Scandal, they just have to know everything. I could Not with TV when they showed her at that desk when Wes apologized to Sam's lifeless body.
I can't wait to see the events that she saw through her eyes.
How does I feel about Sam being the murderer? I'm good with that. It gives him another bargaining chip to use with Keating. I am just happy it was not Fine. Fine. Nate.
That character is already bitter & scornful because he lost his job (Because of Bonnie, not Annalise and I wish that would be told to him). I didn't want my Eye Candy to be a killer also. My heart couldn't handle it.
Now my heart can handle that Nate, Annalise, & Bonnie are in on the alibis. When Annalise fired Bonnie, I think that was a rouse. Annalise may have been planning to kill Sam herself and Bonnie was in on the plan. The plan went awry when 4 of the Keating 5 and Rebecca got in the way. Plans had to change when she saw him dead. Wes filled her in on the details. That phone call to Bonnie was so Annalise could catch her up to speed on the details.
Nate is in on the 2nd albi after Sam was dead. Why??? Sam is dead & out the way. I'll keep you secret as long as you have sex with me. Also if Nate gets his job back, don't be surprised. Also don't be surprised when 4 of the Keating 5 (maybe all 5 if Bonnie who slept with Asher sways Annalise) get automatic A's in the class.
Laurel will tell Frank during pillow talk. Sam will be at a crossboard.
The Season Finale we will find out who actually killed Lila Standgard.
So that's that!!! I might be back after the first shows of the Spring. I have feeling Scandal will move quick with getting Olivia Pope back. She is the linchpin.
So would do you think about what is going on in Shondaland so far? Leave your comments in the inbox.
Always, Talking to You in Adult
Oh Yeah, can we All sing "Vagina"!!! LOL That was so Funny!!!
I ♥♥♥ Drunk Meredith & Callie!!!
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