Toxic Toy Beliefs

If there is ever a wonder why I like Twitter better than Facebook, the following post from the site should be sufficient reason. If you are a long-time reader the name & face of the poster have been concealed because they won't ever have a chance to be famous off my blog.

Whenever controversy is started on Facebook, it is Always the most extreme views out there. You doubt me. Go look at where QAnon hides. But unlike Twitter and its ever-changing Trending Topics, when the views blow up, they stay awhile. This particular one was started two days ago, I heard about it on Twitter (because Black Twitter was roasting the poster like 98% of those 😆 reactions the post received on Facebook) the next day and I saw the first meme above today on Facebook.

Let me take a viewpoint less taken. Because I tell y'all All The Time about teaching kids the value of learning to cook. And folks act like I speaking in alien. But I looked THIS article up because I could've sworn this belief was discussed at length years ago because of the color of Easy-Bake Ovens. So, Hasbro makes them now in gender-neutral colors.  I don't know where the poster was in life during this in life but can somebody slide him the info.

People always want to put gender & sexuality on children's stuff. Leave Children Out of All of Your Screwed Up Opinions. That mess is old. Men cook for their families. Women mow the lawn.

The picture I think cause the foolish post

Gone are the days that boys can't play with dolls & teddy bears & girls don't play with cars & trucks. And how does any of that tell them who to sleep with? These Are Children!!! Oh & since we are here, Get your daughters a play tool set. As a heterosexual woman who can change a tire...It might save her life.

Maybe the person who posted this foolishness needs to ask a gay man who can't cook what did he play with. And also ask a man who had a kitchen playset which gender(s) he prefers having sex.

But that makes too much common sense to do. Posting asinine statements about what children should play with is much easier.

Yo, Fisher-Price please go ahead make that Play Bartender Set. I Need a Drink!!!

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Thankful to Debate

The Answer is Great than Good because Food is the Rhyming Word.

Let's talk about the blessing of having opinions (Well, at least the ones based on common sense, truth & logic). Everywhere we turn somebody is talking about their feelings on some topic. I believe wholeheartedly in this truth, "Facts are not opinions and Opinions are not facts". But I also believe you can learn something from everyone's opinion (Even if it is "They have no clue what they are talking about"). And that is refreshing to me. 

Macaroni & Cheese

Pecan
It is just overly sweet
goo & nuts

And this time of the year can be very opinionated. As you see I gave mine to the pictures provided. You might disagree but I don't care if you do. It's just a difference of opinion. Most of those are based on our knowledge & experience of a topic or subject. And there is a big blessing in them & what we do with those impressions.

Macaroni & Cheese
I'm scared to say Sweet Potato
because the Pie version will go Bye-Bye
But Candied Yams shouldn't get too comfortable

I'm like the Old El Paso Soft or Hard Taco Commercial
How About BOTH?

We are blessed that our minds are in such a state that we can think with. And not with just function but with emotion also. And debating and smartly arguing means that we are engaging with one another. After a time where life forced us to be physically away from one another, our different beliefs about everything still pushed & pulled around the world. And guess what?  They are some of the things that kept us, no, are keeping us together. Because we like giving our opinion, we make the time we have on this rock we call a world rather thought-provoking

With Final 2 being
Sweet Potato Pie & Lemon Ice Box Pie
Sweet Potato Pie WINS!!!

Just like one of my favorite Thankful songs says, there is So Much to be Grateful For. And Opinions are one of them. And you can't disagree. Or can you?

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BECAUSE IT IS

Oh and back to the first topical picture. Good is Great & God is Good. And whether or not if you Thank Him for Your Food. For me, there is no debate about what he is. He's Greatly Good!!! Alright! Ok!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

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Watching November, Thanks 📺

Christmas movies get all the attention, but Thanksgiving movies have all the heart for the holiday season. It is no secret that I am no fan of celebrating Christmas before Thanksgiving. Not until after I see Santa at the end of the Macy's Day Parade do I want to hear & enjoy This Christmas by Donny Hathaway aka the Best Secular Christmas song. I prefer entertainment that tells tales about the Holiday of Gratefulness. There are many, many songs about giving thanks but what about films. Oh, they exist. And I have a few favorites.

Tower Heist So, while the Macy's Day Parade is going on, a luxury condo manager leads a staff of employees to seek revenge on the Wall Street swindler who cheated them. What could go wrong? It's hilarious to find out.

What’s Cooking? This movie moves around to four different Thanksgiving meals, all thrown by families from diverse backgrounds(Black, Jewish, Latinx, & Vietnamese) who think they have a few things in common: stress, food, and stressing over food. But they find out they are tied to one another in ways never seen.

Planes, Trains, and Automobiles This is the most known Thanksgiving film. All Steve Martin's character wants to do is make it home for the holiday. But along comes the late, great John Candy's character and shenanigans ensue.

Pieces of April On Thanksgiving night, this is what I watch. I love this movie. Quirky & former rebel, April lives with her boyfriend in a low-rent New York City apartment away from her emotionally distant family. When finding out her mother has a fatal form of breast cancer, she invites the family over for Thanksgiving. But while her family travels into the city, April, a beginning cook runs into kitchen problems and must ask neighbors for help. All I have to say is come for dinner but stay for the cooking.

There are a couple of small-screen gems I like also, A Royal Family Holiday on TV One & Friendsgiving on Netflix. 

But entertainment media act as though there is no value in Thanksgiving movies. I wish they would change their minds. They act like Holly Robinson-Peete & Candace Cameron-Bure only like turkey dinners with a side of Jingle Bells and not with a Cornucopia. Oh well, until November is filled with Thanksgiving movies, I'm bucking the system & watching what I prefer. And I'll do with gratefulness in my heart.

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Best of Restaurant Bias: The Fish & Seafood List

I'm not a major fan of most "Best of" lists, especially when it comes to restaurants. It took me a while to do this list. It is no secret fried catfish is on my personal "burned out" list and only eat it occasionally. And there are many fried catfish establishments in the area. But they aren't the only non-meat protein game in town. So, these restaurants were picked out weeks ago. Truthfully the hold-up was, I had to decide the direction I wanted to tell why I dislike Best List for this topic.

I think too many Best of Seafood list perpetuates the incorrect belief that all protein that comes out of the water are seafood.

Don't believe me, ask the average person about their favorite seafood & listen to freshwater fish get named. Hence why I classified my list in the way I did, Fish & Seafood. Freshwater places aka rivers & lakes are not the sea aka oceans & gulfs. So, places that only sell catfish, trout, bass, etc., should not be on the Seafood list. Stop allowing consumers to be stupid. Let them be properly educated.

My Top 3 Dallas Area Fish & Seafood

Top Cat: One of the few Fried Catfish eateries that aren't using lab & farm-raised Swai & Tilapia as replacements. (Yes, I said it. Fish should be flaky and not meaty in texture.) It is fried golden & it is seasoned nicely.

Bucky Moonshine's:  Want some delicious crawfish or shrimp etoufée this side of the TX/LA border. This is the place to be. They have nice land items but their seafood & fish dishes are so tasty.

Hook, Line, & Sinker: A "catfish place" that knows it can be made in other ways than fried. Yes, there are shrimp & fries. But there are Grilled catfish, trout, & salmon, and kabobs also. And they taste lovely. I really wish the others would catch on. But until then, Hook, Line, & Sinker is #1 in my book.

Let's remember! All fish is not from the sea. So, that's not seafood. It's just fish. Outspoken_Diva doesn't want you guys speaking foolishly. Especially because these "food insiders" are leading you to. When you know you better, you do better. (I Love That Quote.) Now, I want a few shrimp & veggie kabobs. Oh, Hook, Line...

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I Just Wish Y'all Would Talk to One Another (Answering Questions)

Communication has to be a base for any relationship. But for some odd reason, it's still an issue. Maybe this is why I am single. Because I still attract non-communicators. Have to find out why and work on that.

Q: I saw this and thought about what your response would be. So, what is it?

A: I would be a tad bit offended. Because though I don't want to settle for courthouse or pastor study nuptials (They seem very rushed & desperate), he should know I don't fancy a big wedding. I prefer a 25-50 guest wedding & glad-hour style reception with line dancing in a hall. But I'll let my proposed plan go and have a color-themed housewarming with a surprise wedding with our closest loved ones. My only request would be that we must have a house found or built at the same timeframe it would be to plan a "Big" wedding. I hope my future husband is taking notes somewhere. LoL

Q: I saw this question on TV. Does a Sexless relationship give you grounds to cheat?

A: Heck No! Two "Sexless" relationships come to my mind. There is the one where the sex life of the relationship fell off at some point. The other kind is where sex was never had in the relationship. If there are others, let me know. Either way, a discussion needs to be had.  Cheating is so Immature & Foolish. Open your mouth and talk about your want and needs with your partner. There is already a problem. Communication stops it from becoming more than you want to deal with. Or at least be like Donnell Jones in his song "Where I Want To Be" & Break up before you commit Infidelity.

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The Hodge Podge (Answering Questions)

Yeah, I let the questions stack up & there's a bit of a backlog. But I'm here now.

Q: I want you to answer this. Please!

A: Such an unfortunate picture. As a clumsy person, I feel their pain. Child...As Much as Chicken, Heck Food Costs, I am saving & rinsing the chicken. And putting it back on the grill.

Q: Even though you give people blog names, has anyone you've talked about ever been offended by a post (ie Weeble-Wobble, JMac, Barracuda Stumps)?

A: Not that I am aware of. No one has said anything about being offended. I've sent JMac the links to posts he was mentioned in and he has given me kudos. I don't talk to Barracuda Stumps aka Worst Boyfriend Ever. I wish he would read my blog & confront me. I typed that sentence while thinking about unloading the clip that is my mind on him. Pray for me. LoL Weeble-Wobble is a Facebook friend. Who knows if she read this. But the comments & discussions are always welcomed.

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A Butternut Nut (OUTSPOKEN_Diva's Favorite Recipes)

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This recipe could be for Breakfast or Brunch

Butternut Breakfast Hash

Ingredients:

• 1 lb ground sausage
• 3 cups butternut squash, cubed (I use frozen, it cubed already)
• 1 cup onion, chopped
• 1 tsp oregano
• ½ tsp black pepper
• ½ cup broth or stock
• 2 cups spinach
• Fried Egg (optional)

Directions:

1. Heat a large skillet to medium-high heat and add the sausage. Break the meat into small pieces with a spatula. Brown until fully cooked.
2. Add the butternut, onions, oregano, black pepper, and sauté for about 2 minutes.
3. Add broth and then place a lid on the pan but leave it tilted open some. Let cook for 5-7 minutes or until butternut is softened.
4. Add the spinach leaves and cook until they are reduced down for 2-3 minutes.
5. Serve immediately while hot.
6. Add a fried egg to the top.

Most people know I love a good meatless meal. Make this on a lazy & slow day and enjoy.

Shrimp & Rice Stew

Ingredients:

• 1/2 cup uncooked long-grain rice
• 1 tablespoon butter (do not use margarine)
• 1 cup of water
• 1/4 teaspoon Italian seasoning (preferably salt-free)
• 2 Tblsp apple juice
• 1 small onion, chopped (1/4 cup)
• 1 clove garlic, finely chopped
• 1/2 cup frozen carrots
• 1/2 cup frozen butternut squash
• 1/2 cup frozen spinach
• 2 cup cups reduced-sodium chicken or vegetable broth
• 3/4 lb cooked deveined peeled large (21 to 26 count) shrimp, thawed if frozen, tail shells removed

Directions:

1. In a 10-inch skillet, cook rice in butter over medium-high heat, stirring frequently until rice is golden.
2. Stir in water and Italian seasoning. Heat to boiling; reduce heat. Cover; simmer until rice is almost tender.
3. Meanwhile, in a 2-quart saucepan, cook apple juice, onion,n, and garlic over medium-high heat for 5 minutes, stirring frequently.
4. Stir in frozen vegetables. Let cook until warm for 5-10 minutes Add remaining ingredients.
5. Cook about 10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until hot.
6. Stir cooked rice into shrimp mixture. Cook about 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, until rice is tender

Making a quick meal never hurts anyone.

Chicken with Brussels Sprouts & Butternut Squash Skillet Meal

Ingredients: 

• 1 pound boneless, skinless chicken breasts, sliced
• 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
• 1 clove garlic, chopped
• 1 small onion, thinly sliced
• 1 cup diced butternut squash
• 1 cup halved Brussels sprouts
• 1 (5.6 ounces) package Knorr® Rice Sides™ - Chicken

Directions:

1. Season chicken, if desired, with salt-free Italian seasoning or salt & pepper. 
2. Heat 1 tablespoon oil in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat and cook chicken, stirring occasionally, until chicken is thoroughly cooked & brown, about 5-10 minutes, adding garlic during last 30 seconds cook time. Remove and set aside.
3. Heat remaining 1 tablespoon oil in the same skillet and cook onion, squash, and Brussels sprouts until vegetables begin to soften and start to brown, about 5 minutes.
4. Stir in Knorr® Rice Sides™ - Chicken flavor and prepare according to package directions.
5. Stir in cooked chicken.
6. Serve Hot.

I have so much fun making these dishes. If you try them, let me know.

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