Oh Cheating! It has taken down so many people. Adultery can make some lose their jobs and relationships. It even has a "Reality" show. Everybody has an opinion about cheating but there is not a Set Definition on what it is. Some think emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating. Some people think kissing is not cheating. Some think one is not cheating if one is not in a serious relationship. It's so prevalent, we even want to know why. We all want to be in the mind of a cheater. Everybody has an opinion but no definition.
There are no Levels of Cheating for me. An ex's cell called my phone and on my voicemail, I heard him make plans with another chick for later. I called him. Let him hear the message. Let him explain (lie). Then I broke up with him. He's been my ex from that day forward. I broke up with him just on his intent to cheat. Cheating is Cheating!
Anything with emotional, romantic or lustful implications, you have to do in secret with another person is cheating. If you can't share info about your relationship or rapport with another person with your mate or dating partner I think is cheating. If it's hidden, it's cheating. For example, Man has secret dinners with a co-worker. They talk about hobbies, TV, love, lust, feelings and emotions. They never are physical. Wife never knows about these dinners. I think is cheating because the same energy that should be reserved for his wife he is secretly sharing it with someone else. If it not a problem, then it would not be in done in secret. The wife would know her husband went out with his co-worker and he would tell to her about what they talked about. Also he wouldn't be sharing love & lust energy with that co-worker at all. Yes kissing is cheating. Explain how some woman had a STD on her lip that's not from not oral sex and passed that off to her STD free boyfriend. Umm YES, Kissing is cheating too!
Now why people cheat, I don't know. But until the "experts" find out they need to Truly define it. One can find out why a behavior happens until they know what it is.
So what is your "definition" of Cheating? Emotional? Kissing? Intercourse? What's the worse? Share it here in the Comments.
As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms
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