Oooh, He Talks Real Good (Attractive Characteristics to OUTSPOKEN_DIVA)

The stereotypical Male voice is very sexy to me. Tones ranging from Brad Garrett to James Earl Jones make me swoon.

But a deep voice can be just that, A Deep Voice if he doesn't speak or communicate well. Now a man who speaks grammatical English, that doesn't mumble or say uh, huh, nah mean, and other slang all the time make my head turn around everytime. Especially a Black Man.

That's how I met my "little brother", BJ. Nothing about him was/is attractive to me. Matter of fact I had wrote a narrative about him while just looking at him months before meeting him in the dining hall at Lamar University. (I wasn't far off once I met him.) Then at lunch one day with others I heard him talk. I stared at his mouth like whatever he was saying was gold. I made him a little uncomfortable. I explain that I liked Black men who spoke correct grammar.

It is appealing to hear speech like that because I can understand what they are saying. I know what they mean, I don't need urban dictionary to have a conversation with these men. I don't have to ask him to repeat that because what he said is clear. When a man says, "Hello! How are you?" when he approaches me I know to reply "Hi. I'm fine and yourself". He and I can converse.  I honestly don't know what to say to "Say, Say, Baby, Uh Uh Say". That guy must want to conversate. And contrary to what the Webster's dictionary will accept, I Never want to conversate with anyone.

A man who speaks "Proper" let's me know that this guy and I have at least one thing in common. 65% -80% of grammar class was learned. Whether we have anything else in common, at least I know that in the end I will be able understand what he said.

I know a man's diction says nothing about his character. Trust me I know some men that speak well and and are very gross people. I also know some very nice guys that speak a lot of slang.  

If they ever let me have my way, mumblers would be be sent to a talking rehab as soon as I hear them talk. Speak up or you can go to jail. Mumblers drive me batty.

So hats off the those sexy talking men out there.

I know what you are saying. And how you are saying it is hot. Come talk to me sometimes. Conversation Only!!!

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms