Tuesday, August 16, 2016

No Ugly Friends!!!

Before You Click the Video above, it may contain language and materials that some viewers may find Offensive. Govern Yourselves Accordingly!!!

I hate this term and others like it.(Read this POST and you will understand). I have never treated any of my friends as the Ugly Friend. Not Even when I did had Ugly (by pop culture's beauty standards) Friends did Not I treat them like that (Oh but I was accused of doing so, Also in that POST). You have to let those people see the actions for themselves and love them through it.
I don't know if I was ever the Ugly Friend. Almost positive I haven't but, you never know. Being the Ugly Friend is something I've always observed from the outside looking in. I have dated the Ugly Friend, (We broke up because he had to much free time to worry about what I was doing all the time. Heck, he could still be being treated as the Ugly Friend). I've had friends who have been treated like the Ugly Friend. I have friends who thought they were the Ugly Friend among their friendship groups. Those are some phenomena to watch.

This video came across one of my timelines and I agree with it whole heartily. You guys know I believe in this mind set, "There are no ugly people, they just don't look like what you want them to look like".
And just because you are not attractive to somebody else that doesn't mean you have to feel that way about yourself. Other's can only treat you like the Ugly Friend if you allow them to do so. You only do that because you feel ugly. People we have to work on not feeling ugly about ourselves. There are people who thrive (knowingly & unknowingly) on it. Why let people feed off the negative parts of you when the positive parts is the nourishment that them and you need?
DJ Khaled says, "No New Friends". Well, I am saying "No Ugly Friends". We will Not be the Ugly Friend, Anymore. We will Not treat anyone like the Ugly Friend. "No Ugly Friends" If a friend can't treat you like you look good then, they are No Good. And if you can't treat a friend like they look good then again, you are No Good. No Ugly Friends!!!

 As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

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