Y'all and That Kink Shaming

When I was asked would I ever talk about sex on this blog, I started to say "No". Kink Shaming is one of the reasons why. Ignorance & self-shaming are of the reasons I have observed that people shame anybody. And that is truly a shame.

Before I continue, I need all who ran to this post for some hot, steamy, gossipable info to Leave!!! Thank you for the click, but this not a place I have sex & you guys are not the man/men I wish to be intimate with. My personal opinion about any "kinks" discussed will not be seen here. Again, Thank You for the Click!!!

I had no desire to talk about this. Then the actress, Gabrielle Union said she had engaged in anallingus with her husband & some kind of info came out about a radio personality named DJ Envy engaging in pegging.

My social media timelines erupted. It's amazing how the rapists & sexual predators of Hollywood barely get a grumble from some. But let someone say they engage is sexual activities that are not even shown on Cinemax, the internet becomes a judgemental opinion city.

And what was the wildest part, some of the most opinionated people during this kink shaming time were self-professed Freaks. I always have want to say this. Define Freak! Heck, Define Kink, too! Whatever the definitions are for these loosely used terms, I would hope it included an understanding that there are probably levels to kinkyness. And even if it is not, Judging others is Wrong.

I saw a guy, who was kink shaming Gabrielle Union say, "Nipple Rubbing is My Sh*t". I thought about a comedian I heard years ago joke that nipple play made him feel vunerable & he wasn't into it. I wonder if that comedian has Facebook. I kid, I kid! That comedian wouldn't dare kink shame that guy. LoL

One day, Everyone Will (morally & legally) Like What They Like and It Will Be Alright!

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms