Talking Will Be Talking (Answering Questions)

So, here is the thing about the question and answer posts, you have to send questions for me to answer. But those who asked was I ever making another Q&A post, here is one for you.

Q: I saw you say that you were fighting the urge to talk about a pastor named, John Gray. Why?

A: *sigh* It hasn't even been a full year of being a pastor, and a lot of personal issues have come up for The Grays.  When John Gray said his wife, Aventer "birthed" him on a talk show and wife got very upset at any criticism, I had a feeling there was more to the story. And it has been. An expensive car was bought as an anniversary gift.

Now, there is an admission of infidelity on his part and the lady may be pregnant. And his wife standing at church blaming the devil for her husband cheating on her. *sighing again* I know a loving wife shouldn't publicly admonish her husband. But what she did, looked foolish in my opinion. The devil did his job, her husband didn't do his. I actually wish The Grays step down and do the real work for redemption & family healing out of the public's eye. I think that would show true Christian leadership.

Q: Do you believe the Gillette ad for men to better men was marketing or impact?

A: Time will tell why Gillette made the ad that strongly encourages the ending of toxic masculinity. When we see that Gillette start mentoring programs & also give to positive existing programs that are teaching boys non-toxic ways to manhood, that will tell the True intent.

Alright, all of you who ask me for my definitions of terms that I use in the dating world. You won't have to wait until I write a memoir for a glossary for these particular words. Some rap/ BHM model guy who sent me a follower request on Instagram(IG) had this on his page.

It is such a Godsend. Since high school, I thought these terms were universal. Oh well, study, understand, and use them correctly in your lives. Your rapports & relationships would love you for doing so.

Ok, that's all the questions & answers. Please remember these type of posts can only exist if you guys send me questions to answer. So, send them to C.OUT.SPOKEN@gmail.com and I will answer what I can, as I can.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!!!!