I Knew I Was Different

Like a long-winded preacher would say, "I won't be before you long". But umm, I want to discuss this scenario here. I saw it one evening watching comedian Shuler King's Youtube channel. You can listen to discuss his humorous feelings HERE. 

I feel she is A) Reasonable. And my answer is based on my thoughts on the "him" in this situation.

1. He probably has Never really listened to her beliefs, ideas, wants, and dreams(Especially about engagements, weddings, & marriage) while they have been together. 
2. He possibly gambles in hopes many times in life.
3. He might be controlling.

We've seen a few weddings that the husband plans and surprises his beloved with. If you ever listen to those guys talk, they all say they were successful in have those events because they intently listen to their ladies. So even if this woman expressed her desire for someone to pay off her educational debts, what did she ever say and not say about her wants for engagement & wedding bands? Looks like to me this man (I truly hope lovingly.) made an expensive decision and kinda ended up crapping out. And my antennas rose because of the debt he paid off and used it to propose with. Maybe because I refer to Sallie Mae & her niece, Navient as my pimps. I mean I and many many others basically work to pay them. Also, the way many men feel like gaining a wife is some ownership prize presses into my impressions of him. Her request for a ring sound like his girlfriend never said paying off debts was a marital requirement. So, him using canceling a student loan as an engagement chip seems ruling to me.

Well looks like if he truly wants to marry her, he should start looking for a ring. Anyone who knows this guy, tell him I did a Google search. And I found a nice diamond ring idea at Kohls(I mean $70,000 is nothing to sneeze at. He might need financial help.) I say idea because I want him to listen to whom that photo refers to as "his woman" wants. Don't let my idea mess up what little bit of a good thing he possibly still has. I just truly pray he learned the one glaring lesson in all of this. Learn to Listen, Listen to Learn.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms!