*Warning: If you watch "The Game" on BET or "How Men Become Dogs" on the Issa Rae channel on YouTube and are not current... Spoiler Alert!!!*
Popular television has made me Realize, I am Glad I am out of my 20's. I am so glad I did what 20 - 29 year olds do when they are that age. I went where they go when I was in my 20's. And mostly elated I learned what I needed to know then Because, I plan not to go back.On the show "The Game", there are two characters Blue & Keira. Blue is a rookie football player and Keira is a former child star, trying to get back in the business. He was very attracted to her while; she was still on the fence. Along the way they have struck up a friendship that ended up with them on one random, unplanned night, having sex. Keira was virgin and Blue didn't know that fact. He finds out from another player, Malik, because Malik thought he was lying on her. Blue confronts Keira and angrily tell her they can't be friends because she didn't tell him. After finding out both side of the story, Malik explains to Keira why Blue is mad. Men supposedly don't want to be a woman's first because the woman become clinging. Keira ends up drunk and want to talk to Blue. After throwing up on his floor and his jeans, Blue and Keira decide friendship is not bad.
Now the age I am now, I don't understand why he was so upset. This is why you don't randomly have sex with anyone out having Sex Talks. Everything we do has consequences. Unplanned Sex is not an exception to the rule. It's probably one of the reasons why there is a rule. Upset because she didn't tell him she was a virgin. That's why you don't assume. Before people have sex with anyone they even think they want to have sex with better ask questions. One never know what cards could get laid out. Even as friends, he could find out. Friends talk about their sex lives. Keira is wrong also. You have one first. Nobody should be that willing to give it up that they don't think to speak up. What if it was not all that grand? And I'm going to leave it at that.
Now a web show called "How Men Become Dogs", we have Cameron who has been dumped by his girlfriend Jessica for not being aggressive enough. Cameron and his friends start taking "Dog" classes. Well while taking classes Cameron starts secretly seeing Jessica's friend, Brandy. Brandy approached him at a party and gave him her number and that is the start of their secret rendezvous. At a pool party, Jessica finds out about Brandy and Cameron. While Cameron is clearly dealing with seeing Jessica, Brandy comes by and tell Cam she talked to Jessica and basically got a go ahead. She wants to know if she is only the rebound chick also confesses her love for him. He tells her he's not sure what love even is. She tells him to get his feelings together or lose her too.
I need to know Brandy so bad. Brandy needs to be my cousin or niece so, I could teach her The Girl Code & How to know you are the Rebound. The Girl Code to date your friend's ex is simple; Don't!!! Rebound status is almost as simple. Any point when a person is willing to creep with you, a red flag needs to go up. If you try to confront your issues with the creeping and they blow you off, a red flag should go up. If they go MIA after seeing their ex, a red flag needs to wave high. Cameron is a mess too. No, he is the mess. I don't care if you trying to be a dog. Dogs got to heal too. How about before he took the "dog" classes, he should have gotten himself together. People are going to learn not to make decisions with a broken heart.
Now y'all understand why I don't miss my 20's. I saw the light bulb come on when I turned 30 but, I never thought about the lessons I have already learn. Never thought about how clear they would become when seeing others make crazy mistakes (even if they are on TV). Oh well, onto learning more from my 30's. Got a while before 40 and I bet older Outspoken_Diva is laughing at me now.
As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms
