Anyone remember Antoine Dobson from YouTube Viral Video (Hide
Your Kids, Hide you Wife) Fame. At one time he lived his life a gay man and recently
articles have popped up about Dobson now choosing to live life as straight man.
He has a girlfriend and they are expecting a child. Well, the LGBT community is
upset with Dobson (Dollar to Donuts, there are some Heterosexuals who have said some things also but I've seen reports on the LGBT being upset).
I remember when I first heard someone get upset with Gospel
singer Donnie McClurkin when he said that God had delivered him from the sin of
Homosexuality. The person felt like McClurkin was lying because he was clearly
gay. I also know a few people, hetero & homo sexual waiting for a story to
contradict McClurkin. Nothing provable has been found. That was about five
years ago. So now to hear that the same behavior continues does not shock me
anymore.
I can’t understand why get upset with how a man (or a woman)
wants to live his (her) life. If he is not hurting anyone (You know saying this
publicly but behind closed doors, doing the exact opposite.) with how he lives
his life. What is the problem? In my opinion, just like saying homosexuality is
wrong is wrong and hurtful it is wrong and hurtful to tell someone that they
cannot ever be heterosexual if they were once homosexual. No One can prove that
Sexuality is a choice or innate. It is tried but still not proven. I personally
know people who feel they were born gay and people who chose to be gay.
So what is wrong with choosing to be straight?
I’ll say it. Some gay people rally against bullying of gays
can be very bullying to heterosexuals. They want compassion for their rights to
love l but lack compassion for others right to love. They want to rally for
their right to live but trample on other’s right. Hate is not limited to one sexuality.
Also I don’t want to hear the excuse about this does not
help those who are closeted gays. Shut Up! Every gay person in the world could
come out in the open, and it will still be one in the closet. Someone else's choice
to live their life should not dictate how anyone else lives their life. If it
does, it something wrong with the person who lets that dictate their life.
Like I said earlier unless anyone who claims not be gay, straight,
gay anymore, or straight anymore, is lying and they are double a life that will
(and it will) hurt them and/or other, they should live how they want. Don’t wag
a finger at anyone until they contradict what they say and live life as a
hypocrite. And even then, that finger should come from a place of love. The
same love that we all want but for some odd reason can’t seem to give.
Congratulations to Antione Dobson and his Girlfriend.
Praying for a healthy baby for them.
As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms
