Okay I can trace
my family’s lineage comfortable to the beginnings of the Reconstruction. Three
of my great grandparents were children or young adults. My maternal great grandmother
wasn’t born until the 1890’s. So, if your family was not in America by the late
1800’s, at least before WWI, I’m not likely to date you. I prefer American men.
I won’t say I’ll never date anyone not born here. But the chances are 90%, I won’t.
I know I attract
men from Africa, the Caribbean, and Mexico. I’m a BBW and I’m aware of their
preference to my size. Yet nothing annoys me more than immigrants dissing
American culture. I didn’t choose to come and stay in America. Yet, there is a
population of immigrants that seem to always complain about American life. I
want to say so badly, “Then why are you still here”. The most annoying of the
complainer population are the guys who want to date me. Let me hear “If you
were in my country” one more time I am going to scream. I’m not in your
country. If I was in your country, I would Only be visiting. I never want to
live anywhere but the USA.
I remember a few
years when I found out my mother thought I was going to bring home someone of
foreign decent one day. I laughed for hours. She learned then I don’t date
non-Americans. It was when the movie Phat Girlz came out. The movie made me
want to weep because I know there are American women out there who think the
only men they can attract are non-American. That is heart breaking.
If I ever attract
one that doesn’t constantly complain about the USA, I’ll date one. I understand
loving your country but don’t disrespect the one you are currently living in.
Let me leave that statement right there because I almost finish it
with something mean. I like my men Made in America.
As Always, Talking
to You in Adult Terms
