Monogamy, Polygamy, What About Honesty?

Dear Men I Will Date in the Future,
When I asked you if were you monogamous, I really hope you were being honest. I want you to be honest that you are educated about the polyamorous & open relationships. The information & discussions are out in the public. Trust me, the comedian, Monique & her husband are to only people in an open relationship that are talking about it.
I know I am monogamous. I educated myself to know some things about Polygamy. If there is more, trust me as learn about it, I think about how it fits my life. Polygyny (men in relationship with several women) the most commonly known.

I'm not into sharing a man. I've never fought to keep a man. I've always let him go. Also, I am not sexually attracted to women. You may want that. You deserve a woman that would.
I am not into polyandry, a relationship involving one woman with several men.

I'll be honest, I've picked sleep over sex before. I'm a foot or so away from 40 years old while writing this. And you guys I am "writing" to are 37+ years old. The thought of double play & gangbangs should seem exhausting. Oh and flesh lights are not cheap and would chip into our household expenses.

I know you're thinking who said we are agreeing to any of that. And that is my Major reason why I know I am monagamous. It is a lot of work in compromise & agreements between two consenting adults. Add more folks to the relationship meeting of the minds and the work has to continue. Oh also, you & I have to meet guys who would want to join us. Ever watch the show "Raising Hope". They have a polyandry episode. It's not that easy or funny.

That's why you need to be honest. *imagine me singing in a Jenifer Holiday voice*

🎶I'm Not Waking Up Tomorrow Morning And Finding That You Really Want To Open. And I Am Telling You I Will Be Going.🎶

This is why I asked you in the begining, so you have time to know we are not equally yoked. Like I said, the info & talk is out there. If Wikipedia & articles are not your thing, several podcasts have episodes that delve into the topic. One even introduced me to a good web series called Compersion, that can be found on You Tube. There is no reason for you to tell me you are monogamous and you are truly not.

So, be truthful. I don't deserve lies or uncertainties. No one does. I can handle your truth.  Trust me!!!

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms