Yeah, I see what the youngsters are talking about sometimes. Sometimes I ignore it on purpose. Sometimes I pay attention, just in case the behavior bleeds over into my generation.
Q: We're around the same age, can you explain "pre-dating"?
A: You've been seeing that term on Twitter, too. I think I understand Pre-Dates as basically casual meet-ups guys & gals go on to "test the compatibility waters". I think they are free or dutch activities like at a park or coffee shop. They're supposed to be getting to know one another.
Before you ask, I'm not against it but not totally on board. First dates are awkward. Even after you have a couple of phone conversations as I do before going out. So, I get it. Actually, by definition, I may have gone on a few Pre-Dates in my 20s. Meeting at the bowling alley since I'm already there sounds similar. My hesitation of acceptance is because Pre-Dates screams "F-boy behavior". Couldn't "Netflix & Chill" be a possible pre-date? And one of the reasons I saw on Twitter was to check if she "worthy of a real first date, where real coins are spent." I understand dates can pricey, but that kind of guy needs to sit his cheap predatory tail down somewhere with that mindset. Maybe the lady should check if he is "worthy of her time she is spending".
So, finding out why someone is suggesting it is important. Seriously, check out those pre-dating reasonings & attitudes before meeting up & going out. Your time may be saved.
If you have questions send them to C.OUT.SPOKEN.DIVA@GMAIL.COM. I'll answer them the best of my ability.
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