Sex Tapes to Relevancy (I Blame Pop Culture)

I had to view the trailer to one of the reality shows that makes me flee from social media when it is on TV because y’all want to talk shower rods & this show. (Umm who is the “human rat” guy? And when did Li’l Boosie put on that kind of weight?) Then because of autoplay on Facebook, I saw the sex tape (and the shower rod) trailer talked about on the Love & Hip Hop Atlanta trailer. Ok, the lady knows how to pick out sturdy shower accessories. She gets a thumbs up from me on that. Now what she does with the shower rod *sigh* is going to be mimicked by the freaky and her infamy will rise.

The first one I remember was Tommy Lee & Pamela Anderson. This was pre-internet and the media & gossip was all a buzz about it. It also received a healthy dose of shame. Then was the R. Kelly one that everyone claims to watch, said it was him, but… Let me stop let’s just say I’ll be bringing this tape up again in a blog about Rape Culture. Then the person who has become one the most famous names out right now because of a sex tape, Ms. Kim Kardashian. Honestly, I have never watched whatever she did with Ray J. It’s been talked about enough, I feel I don’t need to.

It is sad to me sex tapes get your name out there in Pop Culture. There are many. Some are leaked. Some are put out on purpose. I just don’t want young people to think sex taping is the truest way to stardom. It’s like sex tapes are the newest way to “sleep your way to the top”. No one needs to know how your personal “Home Depot mixes the Paint in the Bucket”. People need to know of all the sex tapes out there how many people have made it to relevancy in Pop Culture. The number is very few. Tommy Lee & R. Kelly was already famous. R. Kelly almost went to prison *sigh* because of one. Kim K has a reality show but is constantly reminded by the Pop Culture media how she got her fame. And as for this Mimi person, it’s not looking good for her according to talk among my FBF that watches the show. Seems like she is a bit of a liar when it comes to talking about this tape.

I’m no hypocrite because I am a hypocrite. Without sex tapes, the world would have never met The Golden Sisters. That’s them above viewing Kim K & Ray J’s tape. Those ladies crack me up. Sex Tapes do not. Let’s show the real damage that these things truly cause and stop glorifying them like works of art.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Ok Class! Today's Lesson, A Sex Tape!!!

Just last night Bestie Boo, LJ and I were talking last night about me being a prude. We agreed that I have "prudish moments". I call it "Clutch My Pearls Time". Then this morning I hear about a teacher accidentally showing her middle school students her sex tape. Here's the Article. Well it's "Clutch My Pearls Time".

All I could do was sigh. I totally believe it was an accident. I believe if she was trying to lure a child she would have done it in a small setting not the whole class. I maybe being naïve but I will accept her doing this on accident. My question is "Why does she have a sex tape"? Not because she is a teacher but because she is a human. Has anyone learned anything from the celebrities? Am I the only one that has learn "Sex Tapes Will Be Seen, No Matter What"? If she didn't have a sex tape, she would not have shown it to her students. No one at this point in history show still be making or own a sex tape. If you still have sex tape go get and smash it and all (yes All) the copies because it will be seen by eyes that it was not intended for. Those eyes may see it by accident like these students. Those eyes may see it because the person you made the tape with is braggingly showing people. I have seen a few sex tapes and that is how I saw them. One of the "stars" was showing it off to an audience and the other "star" didn't know. So go smash, burn, and destroy your sex tapes.

And before you ask, "No I have not destroyed my sex tape because i don't have one". I think they are stupid and don't need to know what I look like having intercourse. If you see me in one, Let Me Know!!! I Promise any and everybody, that that person will feel some kind of pain. Pain to the body, Pain to the finances, or Pain to their reputation. So let's pray I am not "starring" in any. I'm unclutching my pearls now. This prudish moment is over.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms