Pop Culture's Misuse of Words: Female

Very Smart Brothas & Buzzfeed and others have brilliantly covered this subject (click the the names to read the articles. I've shared & re-posted them.

But I guess no one was reading these articles because the misused of Female keep being disgustingly increased by more & more people. So, now you have to read a blog post based on my know-it-all chatter.

So here are some definitions (And we thank Google):
Female: of or denoting the sex that can bear offspring or produce eggs, distinguished biologically by the production of gametes (ova) that can be fertilized by male gametes

Woman: the female human being, as distinguished from a girl or a man.

Girl: a female child from birth to adulthood

Lady: a woman (used as a polite or old-fashioned form of reference)

Male: of or denoting the sex that produces small, typically motile gametes, especially spermatozoa, with which a female may be fertilized or inseminated to produce offspring

Man: an adult human male or a human being of either sex; a person

Boy: a male child from birth to adulthood

Gentleman: a polite or formal way of referring to a man

People referring to woman as just female is not a new phenomenon to me. I grew up hearing numerous butt hurt, cynical men loitering around various stores, riding public transportation or loudly talking in barbershop or coed salons saying, "These females", "Females can", etc. It went along with all the other disrespectful activities including street harassment that they engaged in.

But now since that behavior is now a part of accepted pop culture (What's Cool), it is strangely easing into everyday conversation in the misuse of female is growing. About 4-5 years ago, I had to have this discussion with Alura, my niece. She was in high school and that was how she talked about girls she didn't like. She's grown age (18-20), now and she curbs the word around me most times but she still says it. Yes, I have hope in her. But the moment that made me type this post happened this past weekend. The star of a web show I really like, referred to the woman that he is in a committed relationship with as his female.Yes, he said "I Am Loyal to My Female". Previously in the interview discussion, the male co-host and he were already misusing female in their opinions about certain behaviors of women. But when he called the woman he’s dating that term, my mental brakes engaged. I almost reached through my phone to clamp his lips. Now, to my calming, his co-star, who is a woman verbally nudged him into saying lady or girlfriend. And he did.

Dear Future Boyfriend(s) and/or Husband,

Take heed! You get one time to refer to me as “My Female” or “The Female I am Dating or Married to” & I know about it. I’ll correct you once. The next time, be ready to verbal spar.

When you refer to a woman no matter how she is behaving to just a female, you have just reduced her to her biological reproductive parts. You don’t think crap about her but not confuse this person’s gender, her sex is her description. As if that woman doesn't have a heart or brain.

In the Buzzfeed article, the author makes a point. "Because nobody casually refers to men as males." What if men were talk about, mentioned based on having penis, scrotum, & testicle? That is what not only using female as the adjective (descriptive word) it says. Female can describe a human, an animal, or a plant. The proper (non-slang) definition of bitch is female dog. When alluding to a woman as just female, you may as well call her a bitch. Some of you all are using that word not to call a woman the slang version of that word anyway. So, recognize the negative take on this word.

I’m not trying to hit anyone of the head with respectability politic. I speak slang. I’ve also had screwy opinions about life that have changed. This is just my know-it-all opinion on how it makes many of us feel. Again I’ve basically heard the “female” used negatively my whole life. It is basically used to complain or disagree with the actions of a woman. When have you ever heard “These females can cook up a storm” or “Females are taking over that company”?

Record it when you do and send that to me. It’s like the attitude is Female are bad but Women are good. Make That Stop, now. Think about who all you are actually talking about when you use the word female. You are not talking about who you disagree with, but also who you agree with also. Oh and ladies if you use the term, you are included yourself, too

So, put some respect & respeck on Female. LoL It’s the disrespectful tone that is hurting us. It hurt us when it was just used in the streets. It is hurting us more since it didn’t die there. And until we stop inflicting pain on each other, I am Not finished, I am Not done.

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The Inappropriate Use of Baby Mama & Baby Daddy (I Blame Pop Culture)

Can someone explain to me why everyone with a child is now a baby mama or a baby daddy? I don't understand how a negative term started describing all the bad & good parents.

I feel like pop culture doesn't know know the origins and characteristics of the terms.

Baby Daddy is the trifling biological father of a woman's child. One who is has never married or been in a long-term, intimate relationship with the child's mother This man does very little for the welfare of the child(ren)

Baby Mama is an irresponsible mother who has not married her child's father, She very neglectful to their children. Some even use the child as pawn to be in the man's life.

Baby Daddy Characteristics

• He makes All The Petty decisions (Made sure the kids have name brand clothes), But leaves The Hard Ones for the mom (Go to Parent/Teacher Conferences)
• Has to be told or remind to do his fatherly duties
• He pays child support and not a penny more. 
• He says the statements, "At least, I take care of my kids" "Hey, I'm trying to do right by y'all" or "I'm doing stuff most guys ain't doing"

Baby Mama Characteristics:

• Child Support pays for her name brand clothes & hair but the kids yet clean are dress in second hand clothes
• Has drama or get upset with the new/actual girlfriend, new/actual wife, father's family & father's friends
• She says, "I'm gonna always be around. I have his child".

Please note these of limited to traditional gender roles. These characteristics can reverse genders, also.
These are also not the same people as Deadbeat Parents. Though thought to be similar, deadbeats do nothing for their children. Some act as though they do not have any children. Baby Daddies & Mamas do at least the bare minimum required to raise a child.

And if you follow U.S. tabloid media, the terms baby mama and baby daddy have even begun to be applied to married and engaged celebrities. I remember when Kanye West & Kim Kardashian were interchangeably called those terms before they were married. Yet, they were in a relationship.  Maybe it is for the popular gains. There is a show on ABC Family about a guy who is raising his child (result of a one night stand) that was left at his door. What is the name of this show?
Maybe because so little worth is thought of single parents that even famous celebrities don't even think much of themselves. I still cringe at this song by R&B singer Fantasia.

Here is a woman raising her child the best she can and she still refers herself as a Baby Mama. Refers to this song as an anthem. Well, I am a non-parent so, I won't feel the need to sing it at all.

A Term people used to describe the negative acting mothers or fathers of illegitimate children, is now in general use to describe any single parent, Are these terms so tainted that pop culture does not understand? Maybe because it is a easy to say term and if paired with our microwave, impatient culture, it just became a term easier to call these people,

• Mother of the/my Child
• Father of the/my Child
• Boyfriend
• Girlfriend
• Fiance'
• Ex Wife
• Ex Husband
• Widow
• Widower

even if they are positive behaving people raising children.

Even the sanctity of marriage does not save one being called these terms. Oh trust me, I have even heard a married cousin refer to his wife as his baby mama. I also know for a few ex-wives to refer to their ex-husbands as baby daddies.

I know it's just me. And I will be the lone person not using the terms Baby Daddy or Baby Mama unless it is to speak of a single parent engaging in negative behavior while raising their children. A responsible single mother & father are respectable people with children. They are just not married for whatever reason. Works a job (or few) to make sure that the bills are paid and the children are taken care of. They don't care about the new people in the other parent's life and are polite (at least until the girlfriend or boyfriend or spouse becomes disrespectful). They support the children and their needs. They don't cause unnecessary problems. They let the other parent see the kids (if the other parent are responsible) They are just out there trying to do the right thing by the children and that is the most important thing. Single Mothers & Fathers goes to their kids' schools to really find out about how they are doing and not to cause ruckus or problems by trying to fight the teacher. They interact with their kids frequently whether they do or don't live in the home. Just like married parents. Actually is it amazing how some married parents have characteristics like the original definition of baby daddies & baby mamas. Interesting!

Images like this

will Never be acceptable to me. They need to hold signs that say Parents or Mama & Daddy. 

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Nothing is Taboo on the Internet (I Blame Pop Culture)

We talk about Everything on the World Wide Web. I said We. So, I am included also. Pop Culture is to blame. Pop Culture makes us feel like we have an opinion about all that every is & was. Pop Culture encourages us to talk, share & post it all.

Earlier this week articles & blog post popped up about a teacher who posted to Facebook this picture

with the caption,

“One of my students came to school today with her hair full of knots, lent, and ridiculously tangled,” she wrote. “So my classroom became a salon. I refused to let her leave school today the same way she came.”

Articles also say When she finished, she says the little girl took a look at herself and said, “aww, so pretty” at the sight of her new ‘do.

*sigh* I'm not upset with the teacher for doing the child's hair. I don't know why the child came to school with unruly hair. Her parent may have arthritis. My mother does and that is why I wore my hair in one ponytail most days going to school until 5th grade. The child might be "tender headed" and the parent just could Not deal with it this morning. The child could have been in a fight before school. The teacher didn't give her a relaxer and change the texture, I'm okay. Unlike the popular reasons for talking about this classroom situation, that's what I am going to speak on.

I'm not okay with her posting her deed to social media. I said it on Twitter. As far as I am concerned, she is as bad as anyone who knew the child was walking around with uncombed, lint filled, did nothing, and talk bad about the child. My problem is she still had something to say, publicly. If she was going to do a good deed, do the deed, and Shut Up. What if it was a parent that was not physically able to comb the childs hair. See your child's hair combed, Thanked the teacher and find out she had all this to say. Now a whole huh bub could be started because of the posts tone.. If the teacher's intent was to make the child look nice, then just let it be so. Whether it was on a private page or not someone saw it and it's being talked about. The teacher, the child's hair and the parent(s) are being talked about. Should it have been.

Alright, on my way to talk about the Teacher and the hair deed, I came across this article, "Woman’s Instagram Post Proves Men Are Lying When They Claim to be “Too Big for Condoms”.

Yes, a popular Swedish singer Zara Larsson went on Instagram and proved to men and women that a condom will fit every man's penis.

This time last year y'all were doing it for the Vine, this lady is doing it for the 'Gram. LoL I get it. Maybe that will help someone tell a guy with lie that they won't be having sex with them. Safe Sex or No Sex. But she felt that needed to turn to social media to get the point across. WoW Is it me or did you think about latex knee highs when you saw this? LoL

I told y'all last year I learned that, Pettiness is subjective. With the invention of this big party called social media, no subject is off limits. Pop Culture mixes the punch bowls. It is up to us whether we are going to drink from them or not. It is up to us to decide how much we drink. I just want people to drink of the punch responsibly. Be mindful that just like you felt like you should talk about something in your way somebody else might feel they can talk about your way of talking about that same topic. Is it worth it?

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Hi in 2015

Happy New Year!!!

I hope 2015 found you well & joyous. 2015 found me listening to a great sermon from Bishop T.D. Jakes. That should not be shocking. I've NEVER "partied" on NYE. I've either been

• On My Way to a Party (long story)
• Home
• Church
• At Home watching/streaming Church 

He really poured into me. He came from the subject "Not a New year But a New Normal" (Deuteronomy 2:1-3). He said he didn't give us half of what he planned. So, I can't wait to see what more he preaches on within the coming year.

Of course you guys can expect my random musing that you have come to like, love or tolerate. Yes, I know I need to finish the "What I Wear" Series. It is now Jean season so that will the next post  in that series. One of my beloved web shows "That Guy" released a movie. I will probably will do a review on that soon. All I will say is That is was so good. Oh and Diva's eye candy list might grow because of a character on there. Yes, I will still be ranting about Pop Culture's impact on our lives.

And yes, I did get a relaxer mid-December. I got a few emails about a hair update.

I flipped it. I don't care if the flip is Not the current trend. I Look great in a flip. . Next relaxer is "planned" for mid-June. Around my birthday, like last year. My hair has grown. It is lying on my collar in the back and chin length on the sides

So again Happy New Year!!!
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Child, the Sassy Black Woman (I Blame Pop Culture)

Disclaimer: No particle of air was grabbed or neck muscle worked in the writing of this blog.

Now, I told the Sassy Black Woman I was coming for her neck. I think this myth, the Fat Motherly/Jolly Black Woman and the All Fashion/Beauty Knowing Gay Man actually make me an Angry Black Woman. I should LoL at that but yeah, I won't. I hate those myths!!! Fat Motherly/Jolly Black Woman myth might as well get ready for me to pop their balloon one day.

I am an educated black woman. I read a news magazines & professional journals monthly. I engage myself in the news daily. On paper I look like this.

Thanks to pop culture though even with all that I do, in the eyes of mainstream America I still look like this.
That is one of the images put in front of everyone, Ms. Sassy & Strong. Somebody may have read my description of myself and envisioned me with pursed lips, moving my neck around in a circle and waving my finger or hand grabbing air.

Though I have can, and do act like that at times that is not how I talk all the time. Very few black women do. I was buddies with a few black women that I never saw work their neck at anytime I was in college.

Don't let reality show conversation and black pop icons like Sandra Clark fool you into think there are no such people like nerdy black women, awkward black girls like Issa Rae,

or happy & demure black women, (which amazing enough I Googled that and got shoe pictures. See what I am saying.) And don't let shows like this "Girlfriends Intervention" (didn't get Not one Nielsen rating point out of me) make you think this is the way one acts so she can be a strong, confident, & Alpha-like woman no matter what race she is.

The Sassy Black woman is a caricature like the Angry & Strong Black women.

Caricature means a picture, description, or imitation of a person or thing in which certain striking characteristics are exaggerated in order to create a comic or grotesque effect. The synonyms are cartoon, parody, satire, lampoon, a mimic. I don't like people thinking that all I am is a satire to be made fun of. Thinking that I act like the lyrics of a Jay-Z song

I got this black chick that don't know how to act 

She's always talking out her neck, making her fingers snap 

She says, "Listen, Jiggaman, I don't care if you rap 

You better R-E-S-P-E-C-T me"

— Jay-Z, "Girls, Girls, Girls"

all the time is Not cool. We all should to wave their finger in the face of Pop Culture and it's definition of the Sassy Black woman. That can be done by showing more images of black women acting as non-caricatures but as human as everyone else.

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Oh the Angry Black Woman (I Blame Pop Culture)

Okay before you read this, go check out this ARTICLE, if you have not already.

It is already bad enough with reality television constantly playing up the image of the Angry & Sassy ("Coming for you again, soon" warning) Black Woman. Here come Ny Times writer,

Alessandra Stanley and her very hurt butt article about her disapproval of the the image of black women Shonda Rhimes uses in her shows. Alessandra Stanley called

Shonda Rhimes, an Angry Black woman for creating non docile black female characters as leads. Stanley does not view Miranda Bailey, Olivia Pope and the newest character added, Annalise Keating as heard working heroines. She gives that compliment to Esther Rolle when she played Florida the maid on Maude & benign mother also lawyer, Clair Huxtable. I want Stanley to watch the beginning video of Clair Huxtable and wonder will she still call her benign. Lord, I just got Clair Huxtable put on Stanley's "Angry Black Woman Lead" list.

When I read this article I immediately thought of this meme.

Even Stanley's beloved Florida Evans on Maude probably wanted to tell her,

 when it came to Stanley's green eyed feeling of  Shonda Rhimes. So unless, Black women are help the women succeed in the background, she should not be seen on scripted television. Or if she not helping the white person be the best they can, she can only be a gentle mother aiding her family through life. Alessandra Stanley lives in a trivial past filled with stereotypes on her television only. Stanley need to turn the past off and go step into the real world. She must have never heard the real Crisis Management, "Fixer", Judy Smith.

I doubt Ms Smith is docile in her job. Stanley clearly has never truly seen a medical or law professor "terrorize" their student into being the best they can. I was a nursing & nutrition student. I have had some terrorizing instructors. I'll take her to Lamar University and let her meet my Basic Foods instructor who took ten points off every time a student said cooking term wrong. When she get's a 30 for the day, I bet she'll understand some instructors are like that. Then she wants to talk about the morals of the characters of Pope & Keating. Where was her morality finger waving when Rhimes introduced up to Addison Montgomery (formerly Shepherd)

on Grey's Anatomy later on the now cancelled Private Practice. Derick Shepherd would've never came to Seattle Grace and met Meredith Grey had Addison never cheated on him. Oh and she complained about the rantings and long speeches of the Angry Black Women leads. Umm remember Meredith Grey's "Choose Me" speech. Am I "nitpicking"?

Those are even the most egregious parts of the article.

"As Annalise, Ms. Davis, 49, is sexual and even sexy, in a slightly menacing way, but the actress doesn't look at all like the typical star of a network drama. Ignoring the narrow beauty standards some African-American women are held to, Ms. Rhimes chose a performer who is older, darker-skinned and less classically beautiful than Ms. Washington, or for that matter Halle Berry, who played an astronaut on the summer mini-series “Extant.”

My mind exploded at  less classically beautiful. So, now Alessandra Stanley is an expert on Black Beauty.

Halle Berry is somewhere, wishing Stanley had not brought her name into this typecast based article. It is Shonda Rhimes' show. She can show the off the wonderful beauty of the Black skin tone rainbow if she wants. Dark-skinned woman, heck any-skinned don't only play servants & sidekicks to white people. Don't let racism and pop culture fool you. There is not one single written down rule about that. If it was, it would still get broken because Hollywood breaks the rules all the time. Then we wonder why a "Dark-Skin Girls" documentary had to be made. Stanley needs to know that is not the Black standard of beauty. That is the White standard of beauty that was fed to all of us. The problem is those that keep eating it and won't feast on another dish.

Now if you think Shonda Rhimes didn't respond to Alessandra Stanley. Huffington post covered it very well  HERE. My Twitter timeline was full of Ms. Rhimes rebuttal tweets and us fans agreeing with her. I loved how she informed the writer & creator of the article. In my opinion, all Alessandra Stanley had to say is, "I don't like Shonda Rhimes work. I prefer the black women characters of the past" when asked to review the new show "How to Get Away With Murder". I did my research on Ms Stanley. This is not her first time not doing her job correctly. She misspelled the name of Everybody Loves Raymond. She accused Geraldo of a nudge that never happened and much more. Maybe that is why she is so hard hitting Shonda Rhimes. She can't do her job correctly so, she'll make somebody else look bad. Alessandra Stanley, you failed, majorly.

Oh Well, this time next week we'll be talking about the Shondaland shows that fill our Thursday primetime lives. Alessandra Stanley's critical piece will fade away. No, I'm not Angry at her. I pray for her and others that continue to ingest the images the Pop Culture that tells are the only proper definitions of people.

I'm sorry, we are All more than that definition, even the definitions.

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Women Hitting Men Discussions (I Blame Pop Culture)

 I don't understand people who can not Use Their Words in an argument. The first thing they do when they are losing is start hitting someone. Some folks act as those that is the only reaction they have.  Many of those are women. It behooves me that I live in a society that does not see these women that unjustly put their hands on men. It behooves me that some people don't understand the sentiment of statements of Whoopi Goldberg

or Stephen A. Smith. I didn't say I agree exactly with either Goldberg or Smith. Goldberg's statement doesn't stop the violence.  And I've already spoke about the Smith's

generalized rant in a previous blog. But I wholeheartedly understand what they are saying. I agree with the underlying ideas of what they have said. Smith tried but failed majorly.We need to confront and/or punish these women who think it is okay to hit men.They actually think they are immune to punishments & consequences.

Oh there is a culture of nasty little women that feel like because they are female and it is taught that a man can't hit a woman that they think they can hit a man and there will be no consequence.

Let me describe a situation. A man is late coming home from work. They had plans to play cards with other men & women in their home. His wife and he started arguing about his tardiness. The argument gets heated. The others are looking. The man suggests they go into the bedroom to discuss the issue. The wife says "I'm not going anywhere". The husband tries to proceed to the bedroom. She says "Where are you going? I'm not through talking about this". Then she pushes him in the head. He walks off and goes into the bedroom. She follows him and still wanting to argue. The guest are just sitting there discussing what they just witness. The wife is heard pushing her husband  and saying "What you want to hit me back".  Eventually the husband leaves the house to cool off.

Why did she hit him? What about the woman's consequences? She gets to hit him because he was late and she is mad and embarrassed. Nobody is going to stop her.

Sad part is society and pop culture actually protects her. A woman hits a man. If that man press charges on her. He is call a derogatory names like wuss & punk. Not a victim. Just like some of the people like the police officer in the video. So yeah, some of these guys snap and hit hit back or worse. Then, they go to jail. It's like a crazy Catch 22 scenario. Of all the double standards that are female favorable and it would be this grossness.

What is wrong with telling women not to put their hands on men? What is wrong with telling women to keep their hands & feet off of other people? Men are People too. My mother & grandmother taught me to keep my hands to myself. I teach my 18 year old niece & my eight year old nephew the same thing.

No Human has the Right to Hit, Punch, Slap, or Kicking another Human unless it is in Self-Defense or they are being legally paid to do so. Don't know how to fight without your extremities, Get Away from Each Other. If you  Hit, Punch, Slap, or Kicking another person, there should be lawful consequences.

Women are humans so, they do not have that right either. Pop culture has it wrong. Instead of attacking those who are trying their best to speak on and against this gross issue, they need help getting the message across.

Men shouldn't hit Women. Women shouldn't hit Men. Men shouldn't hit Men. Women shouldn't hit Women. People shouldn't hit People

Now I Said it!!!

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Lies Told about Sex & the Sexless (I Blame Pop Culture)

Just got through watching “Virgin Territory. It’s a show on MTV highlighting the lives of willing & unwilling young people who have never had sex. I liked is so far. The first episode didn’t show any stereotypical virgins.  Stereotypical virgins are people that act like the main character of 40 Year Old Virgin

(Finally watched that crud of movie. I got the joke. Still not funny.

Romany Malco (Team Eye Candy) being in it didn’t even make me like that movie.).

Or the stereotype that Abstinent people — especially virgins — are expected to be prude, unattractive, homely, recluses who are probably asexual.

They had to reel me in first. The stereotypical are coming later in the season. *sigh*

Of course there were the friends of the virgins that think it is something weird about being an adult virgin. I’ll never understand people who feel like everyone should be having sex. I never had people tell me that before I had sex. Oh but when I decided to become celibate many years ago, many of my friends have made it clear that part of my life is weird as hell to them *shrug* Those attitudes are so annoying. Everybody tries to make sex like this glorious instant phenomenon. Few people tell the real sex story. Fewer people tell someone who isn’t having sex the real story. Pop Culture has a hand in this. Pop Culture has made it comfortable with those stereotypes because it has brainwashed a great portion of the population to believe that having indiscriminate sex is normal and adults who are celibate are not normal. It’s time to snatch its hand out the pot too.

1.     Sex is not good a first. Women let’s tell the truth. All these movies out here making it seem like fireworks and rainbows are lying. And men, let’s face it, the first time you are not lasting forever. I’ve heard the stories. Most of you guys make it to 5 minutes. Two movies comes to my mind that get the first time right. Those are “Love & Basketball” & “The Wood”.

2.    Some of people don’t care about the first time being special. Some folks just want to hurry up and have sex. Some folks want the bragging rights of sleeping with a virgin.

3.    Everybody talking about having sex, are not having the sex they lie about having sex. Trust me everybody is not doing it. That is what I liked about “40 Year Old Virgin” it exposed the co-workers for the sexless liars they really were. People love to make fun of the people they think they have one up on. In my experience, the ones that are having their own dry spells are the people that tease the sexless the most. It’s like since they feel they are having a problem, you have to be weirdo, also.

4.    There are many Famous people that are not having sex or waited before they got married. People love looking up to people.

·         Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon So, what there waited all of a few months to get married. They waited and are still married

·         Meagan Good and her husband DeVon Franklin’s marriage bed is not deviled.

·         Tamera Mowry and her husband Adam Housley decided as a couple to wait until marriage to have sex again.

·         Tim Gunn who is a fashion icon and on Project Runway is celibate.

·         Justin Bieber’s mom, Pattie Mallette, promised herself that she would not date again until her son turned 18, and would be celibate again until she was married.

·         Olympic (Summer & Winter) athlete, Lolo Jones is a virgin.

Yeah she can say some very rude stuff but she’s still not having sex.

5.    That leads me to my last lie. Sex doesn’t make or break you. You will not have sex and become a new person. Who you are is who you are. The beloved Beyonce’, who has according to pop culture reports lost her virginity at 23, seems to be a sweetheart. Umm didn’t she seem that way since she came on the scene Sex might be A stress reliever but so is exercise. If a person has a jacked up attitude that is on them. I was snarky before sex. I was catty while I was in the game. I am a smart-butt since I stopped. Ask somebody that knew me in all three stages. I have family members who don’t know I ever had sex but I bet they can speak on my behavior.

There was a virgin bride named Lisa (her dress was cute) on “Virgin Territory”. I know she wished somebody had been honest about sex before her honeymoon. I thought about her typing number 5. Spoiler Alert!!! She said it was nothing to write home about. I almost laughed when she said that. She comes back 9 months later and says how it got better and she would not change a thing. All this stuff that is presented about sex needs to be rewritten. The truth needs to be added.

Oh well to all of us non-pop cultured defined sexless people and those who secretly wish they could be us out there, the truth will be told one way or the other. Pop culture’s story is not the only out there. It knows it isn't and that why it feels it has to be shouted and constantly bragged about.

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