Really Moms

Okay because it is March it means this is Women's History Month.  So let me talk my last stupid to me argument. It is the Working ~vs~ the Stay at Home mothers. I know you're saying "Diva, you're not a mom. What bothers you about that argument"? As a non-parent I can't to begin to explain to you how crazy moms who argue about this sound. Stay at Home mothers are lazy. Working mothers are selfish.

I actually grew up with argument to an extent. My grandmother was a stay at home mother. She never understood mothers who If had the choice to work. She is very vocal about it. None of her daughters are stay at home mothers. All are/were working mothers. Whether married or single, choice or no choice, they all work(ed).

I didn't even know I was living the argument until I saw both types of mothers loudly arguing on talk shows when I was a teenager. I would sit there and be amazed at the dumbness of the argument. Both sets love their husbands & children, why are they arguing over how the love is shown. The families are whole and happy. No moral or government laws are being broken. Why does this argument exist? Stop it!!!

Each mother chooses her role in her family's life. Arguing over a choice about how Someone chooses to live their life that is not harming anyone is crazy. Mother's Please stop fighting about this. Whatever is right for your family is right.

As Always Talking to You in Adult Terms