Showing posts with label black men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label black men. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Black, Female with a Degree that will still Date Black Males without Degrees

I know that title for this blog sounds like a dating site profile description but after reading a Blog on Black Girl Nerds and watching a  Vlog by Tijuana Jackson (Please read and watch them Very good pieces) I think direct was the best approach.  Dang, that is like the longest sentence I have written. I am going to have to work on that. Well my mind is buzzing with my thoughts. So I had to get this out.

I think I am one of the few Black College Educated women that has never dated outside her race. (Here the  Blog to explain that) and not looking for my version of Jay-Z (Self Educated, Former Hustler, Business man in the day Street Cred Homie in the night).  And Yes, I date Black men who do not have a college degree. It is preferred but not a required. Everybody can't go to college. Everyone is not college material. There is nothing wrong for me to date a UPS man, a janitor, a bank teller, a butcher, a plumber, etc. Those are very legal, morally acceptable (that is required) and needed professions that don't required degrees. There are some nice men that work in those professions. Just like there are some jerks that have college degrees that I won't date. So to dismiss a man because of a professional status is not something I do.

With that said I will Not date ANY Man that thinks being STUPID, UNEDUCATED & DUMB is cool or acceptable.  I do NOT date AIMLESS men. The ones that think reading material is the back of the cereal box. The guys who like to "Convasate" and not "Converse". I don't care what your profession is one should want to strive higher in that field. If you are a low pay diner Cook, I hope you're striving to be a Sous Chef, then Chef, and then maybe write a cookbook or two or whatever. No one should want to stay low on the totem pole forever. I want a man with not just dreams but a man that is striving as hard as he can to achieve them. One maybe a truck driver and one day one may want to own a trucking business. What is one doing to bring that forth?

But the reality is many men who are Aimless, Stupid, Uneducated, Dumb and PROUD of IT are in the professions that do not required anything passed a diploma or GED. A sadder reality is that many are Black. They are other races also but I 'm talking about the Black guys. Even though it is a sad partial truth it is not whole truth. There are Black men in those fields who read books, go to workshops, and who are well versed & eclectic to converse with. Black women who want to date these kind of men have knock out the undesirable and see that these men because they are there. I've dated a few of them. So, I know they are out there.

As Always Talking to you in Adult Terms