WITH YOUR RUDE @SS (Gay Gossip Edition)

I told y’all this series was coming back. And here it is. If you are new to this series, here are the previous blogs in it With Your Rude @ss (Short Hair Edition) & With Your Rude @ss (Big Bust Edition). Today’s entry of this is about something that many don’t think is rude, but it is. 

What makes it okay ask if someone is Gay? The only good reason I can think of is if you are looking to have a romantic rapport with that person. If that is not the case, What business is it of yours?

I don’t understand asking anyone that. I have had many people ask me if a friend, relative, neighbor, church member (current & former), & celebrity is gay. I used to avoid answering. Now I am pretty rude about asking me that. Oh I ask the inquirer; “Why?” “Do they want to date them?” “Do yoi know someone who is interested?” and of “Does this question make the inquirer a better person?”. Oh and afterwards I give them a hearty “Mind your business” or “Quit being nosy & gossipy”. Sure they think I am a jerk for my response but to me they are being a jerk for asking me about somebody else love life.

People are the worst about asking about celebrities. This morning I saw numerous tweets flooding my timeline and comment of several FB posted article wondering about Queen Latifah’s sexuality. Just last month a relative ask if we knew if Maya Angelou was a lesbian. I told that relative I wasn’t checking for her because I was not trying to date her. I then explain my stance on worrying about if people are hetero or homo is their sexuality (Yes, I got a “Why the heck did I ask you" look that I get all the time from my family) From the non-famous to famous talk show hosts, people are always wanting to know which celebrities are gay. There is oddly amazing to me.

It is amazing to me because of all the things humans think are right or wrongs someone’s sexuality is the only thing man thinks is okay to blatantly ask about. No one ever just unashamedly ask if someone is fornicating, had an abortion, murdered anyone, is an adulterer, or is a spousal abuser (which it's rude to ask about also) just because. Then why is someone’s sexuality thought to be up for regular discussion. It’s rude and if you ever ask me expect for me to give the answer you want. Stop asking that rude mess. It’s not our business.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Sexuality Questions

If you came to this blog and thought you would read something hot & juicy… Shame on you!!! Silly Nosey, Gossipy Rabbit, Shame on You!!! Now bow you head and leave my blog in Shame!!! No, your Shamefull self can stay.

Apparently, I am the ONLY person who does not look at a person and automatically assign them a sexuality. I think I am the ONLY person who does not even give it a thought about a person sexuality until they mention it or if I am interested in dating them. I date men who don’t date men so, that is important to me.

 Today I saw an article title “Janelle Monae Avoids Sexuality Questions” and I thought someone thinks she is gay. Earlier this week, I saw an interview clip asking Johnny Galecki was offended by gay rumors. He pretty much said why be offended and he knew it was not true (I agree). On R&B Divas Reunion, Wendy Williams asked more than once &to more than one Diva if they knew if Kenny Latimore was gay. I was getting pretty ticked off because his sexuality did not have anything to do with the show. Wendy Williams still got a no so, her questioning was for naught.  All summer long folks have still been wondering if Raven Simone came out the closet with a tweet about gay marriage. I am so over this.

 

I think people are obsessed with who is bisexual, gay, or straight.  Why does that even matter? Janelle Monae is still a phenomenal singer. Who she sleeps with is not our business? Johnny Galecki knows who he is. He’s does not need to be getting angry over someone’s stupid lie about him. Before the Internet became the gossip vehicle it is, the street have been saying Kenny Latimore was gay. That is not a new rumor. If we pick apart every everyone’s, including Raven’s, tweets and read them into their lives well there is no telling what kind of freak show we are all living.

 

I think everyone should just live their own lives. Stop wondering what the next person is doing or who they are sleeping with. I just don’t understand asking about who someone is or is not sleeping with. That is their business. Maybe people who ask these questions are not being run of the mill nosey but like me and asking because they want to date or even just have sex with them. Maybe like me they think that is important in dating someone.  What? No! ONLY I do that too. OK! *smile* Oh well. Regardless stop being nosey. Stop stereotyping people and assigning them a sexuality. I don’t care what you saw them do or heard them say, how you saw or heard them do or say it, who they were with, and/or where they were. Stop minding their business and mind you own. The tabloid industry just cussed me out for saying that. I guess if each every person did that, they would Die!!!

I wonder when I walk in or they look at how I carry myself do people assign a sexuality to me. Like I give three craps. I’m not going to be offended. I know my truth. Get to truly know and you’ll know it because I refuse to live a lie. Maybe briefly act out one out for kick and giggles but not live one.

Just leave people alone!!!

 

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms!!!