Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Don't Be Afraid to Try These Recipes *in my spooky voice*


It's October. So, I'll say this early. Happy Health-o-ween!!! I feel like I am reaching with that greeting. I might be but that's not the point. Halloween does not have to be filled with all sugary treats. Here are some less sugary treats you can provide for your loved ones & you this Halloween.


I've never carved a pumpkin. I remember my Kindergarten teacher carved one. Then she fried the seeds and served them to us, the students. But to all of us have never carved a pumpkin, Do Not Fret. We can carve oranges. When I started researching healthy Halloween recipes this was probably the first thing I saw. I think they are so cute. 
Jack-o’-Lantern Orange Fruit Cups
Recipe is found HERE
Yield: 8 servings
Ingredients
1. 8 small navel oranges
2. 1 small apple, chopped
3. 1/2 cup halved seedless red grapes
4. Slivered almonds and whole cloves

Instructions
• Choose which side of each orange will be the jack-o'-lantern's face; cut a thin slice from the bottom of each so that it rests flat. Cut another small slice from the top. Spoon out pulp. Chop pulp and combine with apple and grapes; set aside.
• Cut faces as desired; decorate with cloves and almonds. Spoon fruit mixture into jack-o'-lanterns.

Growing up, I didn't go trick-o-treating. After dinner, we went to parties. Until I was 7 or 8, my foundation church hosted a Halloween party. Not Neewollah or Hallelujah Night but Halloween. One of the elderly mission sisters was the witch. Without teeth, she could beat the kids bobbing for apples on a string. RIP Sis. Davis After those years, we went to parties at the Eastern Star/Mason lodge where my great aunt was a member. Once we got home my aunt would have popcorn balls ready. We ate those while our folks went through our candy. My great grandmother made them for her grandchildren. I always figured that was how my aunt learn how to make them. I know many people who make popcorn balls. They put a range of treats from candy-coated chocolate to white chocolate pretzels in them. I found a recipes that put raisins in them. Maybe the popcorn ball makers will try this recipe.
Caramel-Raisin Popcorn Balls
HERE is the Recipe
Yields: 12 (2-inch) balls
Ingredients
• 6 heaping cups popped corn
• 1/3 cup packed light brown sugar
• 1/4 cup reduced-calorie light corn syrup
• 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
• 1/4 cup finely chopped raisins

Instructions
1. Line a baking sheet with parchment or wax paper. Prepare a medium bowl of ice water. Put popcorn in large bowl.
2. Combine brown sugar, corn syrup and butter in a small saucepan. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly. As soon as the syrup starts to lightly bubble, cook, stirring constantly, until the sugar is melted and the mixture darkens, about 2 minutes.
3. Immediately pour the mixture evenly over the popcorn; gently mix with a wooden spoon or spatula until well coated. Gently stir in raisins.
4. Dip both hands in the ice water. Working quickly, press small handfuls (heaping 1/4 cup each) of the popcorn mixture firmly into 2-inch balls. (Make sure each ball gets a little bit of the raisins.) Place the balls on the prepared baking sheet. If they seem too fragile, rinse hands with cold water and press and squeeze each ball again to help keep it together.
5. Let cool completely before storing. To store, individually wrap in plastic wrap and store in an airtight container.

Like the video, I don't like candy corn. It is just a bunch of sugar. They are cute but just sweet to be sweet. But since candy corn is one of the Halloween symbols, I have a recipe to make without raising blood sugar numbers astronomically high. Since Halloween will be on a Saturday this year, I think I might make this for my family. I don't usually cook on Saturday but I think I might make this recipe an exception.
Candy Corn Quesadillas
Inspired from recipes HERE & HERE
Ingredients
• 10 (8-inch) whole wheat tortillas
• 1 rotisserie chicken, cut up and deboned
• 3 tablespoons Salsa,
• 3 tablespoons Sour Cream
• 1 ½ tablespoons Green Chilies (roasted, canned or fresh), chopped
• 1/3 cup onion, diced & sautéed
• 1 small yellow bell pepper, diced & sautéed
• 3 cups shredded Mexican cheese blend, divided

Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
2. Cut the tortillas into a triangle, leaving the bottom uncut and round. Cut them in pairs so they will match together. Place all tortillas in a sealed zipper plastic bag to prevent drying out.
3. In a small bowl combine the salsa and sour cream; stir to mix.
4. In a medium mixing bowl combine the chicken, green chilies, onions yellow bell peppers and salsa/sour cream and stir to completely combine. Salt and pepper to taste.
5. Place one side of a pair of cut tortillas on a large baking sheet. Spoon 1/3 cup of the chicken mixture onto the tortilla and evenly spread it over the tortilla. Place the corresponding tortilla on top of the chicken mixture. Repeat for all the tortillas.
6. Sprinkle separated the cheese to cover the top tortilla in a candy corn pattern: white for the tip, dark orange for the middle (the largest section) and light orange for the top. Cover the whole tortilla. Repeat for the remaining quesadillas.
7. Place quesadillas in the oven. Bake until the cheese has totally melted but don’t over bake until the cheese is thin and runny (about 5 minutes). Remove from oven, trim any extra cheese if desired and serve.

Here are some Healthy Halloween Tips
• Procrastinate - Purchase Halloween candy the day of trick or treat to avoid temptation. Buy less than what you think you will need to avoid leftovers and purchase candies that you do not like, if you still have leftovers place them out of sight. If you really have a hard time with temptation choose to pass out non-candy treats such as bouncy balls, spider rings, pencils, erasers, bubbles or stickers. 
• Eat Before You Trick or Treat - Serve a healthy family dinner before the fun begins, this way the kids will not be tempted to eat candy along the way. Sign a contract between you and your children regarding when and how much candy all of you can eat.
• Get Moving - Get some exercise by making this Halloween a fun family physical activity event. Set a goal of how many houses you will walk to and then stick to it! Wear good shoes for walking too! 
• Safety First - Remember to stay in groups when trick-or-treating. Don’t allow your child to walk up to a house alone and always keep a watchful eye on where they are headed next. Use sidewalks when available, and use crosswalks when crossing busier streets. Smart safety tips to keep in mind:
-bring a flash light while walking,
-only go to houses with the porch light on,
-inspect candy before allowing children to eat it, and
-be on your way home before the street lights come on.

Alright, you guys have a fun October 31st, however you would like to spend it. Be safe!!!

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Friday, September 25, 2015

Having Sex on Your Last Day on Earth???


I watch Dish Nation every night. If I am going to watch pop culture gossip & news, I prefer a show that is making fun of it and not reporting it like it major news. Dish Nation is perfect for me. As you see in the clip the discussion turns to "What Would You Do on Your Last Day on Earth". One of the co-host said basically he would have sex with everyone he ever wanted to have sex with. The other co-host used humor to tell him what was wrong with his plan and suggest he chose another one. 

I thought it was just me that thought having sex with a desired person or people was a risky idea. Who said that person wants to have sex with you? Who says that person would trust that you were going to die? Can imagine having to go to the funeral just make sure that person was dead? Okay let's say the person or people says yes, what if  it's not all you thought it would be? It's not like you have all the time in the world to give them a do-over. 

If I knew I was going to die the next day, sex is not on the to-do list. Well, if I had a husband, it would be. But as a single woman, No, I other things to do. You guys know I would have to type one last post to tell you guys I died. I'll have it in the automatic schedule to be release. I'll have someone trusted to make sure it was properly released. Then it's off to Cheesecake Factory, Pei Wei, & Taco Bell, my favorite place to eat, to dine once more. Finally, assigning my prayer journal to my mom, sister, niece or nephew after I write in it one last time. Oh and also assigning certain personal items to to my friends. I would probably tell everyone I feel don't know I love them that I do. The last hours would me getting ready to leave this Earth. Only person who I want to get ready with is God. So, who has time for Sex. LoL 

But since we don't know, let's live our Best lives.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Sunday, September 20, 2015

Are You Ready For Some TV!!!

First day of Fall is approaching us. Fall signals the start of the TV season for 2015-2016 . So, what will OUTSPOKEN_DIVA start out watching this time. I don't have many changes to my schedule. I do have a lot of reading spots in the schedule. Maybe, I can get some of those free Kindle books I downloaded some time ago read. If I'm not reading then I will be viewing a web show. Oh guess what? My favorite web show, Roomie Lover Friend is on BET at 10pm on Wednesday. I told you guys, the Revolution will Not be televised, it will be on the web, probably on YouTube.

Sunday will be a reading & web show day with one TV break to watch, Last Man on Earth. It's a cult classic on Fox. If you watch it, you know by now Phil/Tandy now has company. Actually he has left "civilization" with Carol to live on their own. What shenanigans will these two get into? I feel like the other Phil even though he is played by Boris Kodjo is fake. Will the others feel this way also.

Monday, I have Big Bang Theory & Jane the Virgin on CBS & CW. We already know for commercials that Leonard & Penny are supposed to get married. I have a theory that once the married man moves out, Stuart will become Sheldon's roommate. Howard wants to put Stuart out, the comic book store is up and running & Sheldon needs a roommate. I'll give Amy & Sheldon until Christmas to continue to be broken up. As for Jane, we will see her navigate life as a single mother. Raphael will take care of his child but I don't see them getting back together this season. Raphael has hotel issues to deal with. I feel like Michael will be around to date her this season until the baby Jane had with Raphael get in the way. The perils of being a new mother with keep Jane a Virgin. So, no need to worry if Jane will remain one.

I already blogged about one of the shows I will watch on Tuesdays. You can read about The Muppets, HERE. Oh and to the reader that sent me an email about The Muppets being puppets and I need to grow up, go play your little video games & Lego sets and leave me to my Muppets. Sorry, about that but cowards love sending mean emails. 
I also have Fresh Off the Boat & Marvel's Agents of Shield.  Fresh Off the Boat lets me relive my younger life. I never remembered that the 90's were so politically incorrect. But there were and I love reliving that time period through the Huangs. I know I have been trying to quit Agents of Shield since half way through the 1st season. This last season was pretty good with them adding the Inhumans, I have to at least start this season.

Morris Chestnut is in a New show called Rosewood. I'm going to start my Wednesday with him playing a private pathologist, where he is highly in demand with law enforcement in Miami, Florida. Actually ABC vs Fox battle for my time between 8-9pm. Wednesday. Empire live and Blackish later on OnDemand.
One or the other needs to be moved up an hour earlier. Blackish to 7:30 or Empire to 7:00
I don't want to dodge spoilers this season.
‪#‎Blackish‬ ~vs~ ‪#‎Empire‬
Last year ABC won because I started with The Middle so, I continue and watched Blackish instead of Empire. I watched Empire later on OnDemand. This year, Fox wins.

Like Tuesdays,  ABC totally wins my Thursday. I will be in Shondaland riding Grey's Anatomy, Scandal, & How to Get Away With Murder screaming TGIT.
Let me say it one time this season, I am a True fan of any show I watch and Grey's Anatomy is No exceptions. I don't give up on a show just because a certain character dies or leaves. With that said, Meredith Grey said in the promo commercial, everything has change and change we will get. My only hope is that  Dr. Miranda Bailey becomes the Chief of Surgery. You guys know by now I am Team Fixer. I could care less or Fitz or Jake. As long as Olivia Pope is doing her job as a crisis manager, I am happy. And I've read that I will be happy many times during this season of Scandal. I've also read and heard that we will find out who murdered Rebecca in the first episode of How to Get Away With Murder. I also want to know who did she text about bringing some eggs to the Keating home. Oh and to see my TGIT eye candy Nate. Free Nate! Free Nate!! Free Nate!!! Oh and Congratulations, to Viola Davis for the Emmy win for her role as Annalise Keating!!!

The Amazing Race on CBS is my type of "reality" show and I watch it on Fridays. My mom and I talk about if we were Racers every week. And yes, I am a Black person with a degree and I am a fan of Tyler Perry's comedies. Not a fan of his dramas but I watch his comedy shows, For Better or Worse & Love Thy Neighbor on OWN on Fridays.
After that, I am catching up on The Middle & Blackish on ABC OnDemand. Sue Heck reminds me of my niece, Alura and Frankie Heck has to based on my mother. And Blackish is my life. I relate to the show.

Saturdays, I call a thing a thing and that is watching Iyanla, Fix My Life on OWN. While she is fixing other people's life, she gives me affirmations to help fix mine also. I know I having messy spots like everyone else and even if the topic doesn't relate to me, I still learn things from that topic. After that I watch Being on Centric and Unsung on TVOne OnDemand. I like learning about celebrities that are or were not big pop culture trends. Plus, I like singing along with the music. Oh Unsung keeps in the "way back machine".

So, that is what I will be watching so far. I live-tweet the following:
Last Man on Earth
Jane the Virgin
The Muppets
Fresh Off the Boat 
Marvel's Agents of Shield
Empire (sometimes)
All of TGIT
The Amazing Race
Iyanla, Fix My Life (sometimes)
You can find me on Twitter @OUTSPOKEN_DIVA, just let me know you read this post in a DM so I will know. Alright, here's to Great TV season!!!

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms.

Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Who is Ready for The Muppets? Me!!!



If you know me offline or follow me on social media, you know I Love the Muppets. As a kid, I would watch The Muppet Show reruns and crack up.
I always felt like Jim Henson was giving me a sneak peak into adult conversations. Something about what the Muppets talked about didn't sound the same as what She-Ra or Kids Incorporated had topics on. I've watched all the movies, even the newer ones over and over. The Muppets Take Manhattan is my all-time favorite Muppet movie. At one point "He'll Make Me Happy"(Hear it Here) was going to the bridal march song at my wedding. My mother says she won't be shocked if I change my mind and she hears Muppet voices at my wedding. LoL

So, when they announce that the Muppets will be coming back to the small screen, I got excited. Yes, it will be in "reality" show format. So, it will be as real as the others in the genre (Yes, I sniggled writing that) with it showing the behind the scenes of the lives of these beloved characters. I have strange feeling Gonzo will slowly steal the show. Just the stuff I see in the promo commercial, he seems to be very snarky in confessionals. He might end up throwing enough deadpan shade to match Rowlf the Dog.

Yes, Miss. Piggy is my favorite. As a chubby little girl, who actually liked getting dressed up, I look to Piggy as a fashion icon. There weren't a lot of plus size stylish women shown on my TV screen as a kid. It's sad but a muppet was blazing a trail for plus size fashion back then. Miss. Piggy is still stylish even after all these years. Oh am I upset that Kermit and she broke up? Heck No!!!
I've never liked Misss. Piggy and Kermit dating. Kermit was very insulting to Misss. Piggy over the years. In the video above, you see their worst fights. I'm not saying I condone or agree with Piggy slapping him but Kermit was wrong for provoking her. And it amazes me that Kermit can fake marry Piggy in a movie but Never marry her in real life. Piggy deserved better than "Forever Girlfriend" status. But that is okay, both have moved on. Piggy can do so much better than the frog.

I also love Scooter & Janice. I hope ABC knows that Scooter is not being shown in commercials..
He's the stage manager. Yeah, I know they say gofer but I like stage manager better. "Reality" shows need stage managers.(I sniggled again) Who is going to keep order while Kermit is off being the star. Scooter better be on the show or my live-tweet will be demanding his appearance or a reason for his absence.
Now Janice is who basically told me that the Muppets were not the same as Sesame Street puppets (I think they are their older cousins). She unintentionally revealing her attitudes towards nudity is what clued me into the idea that Muppets weren’t really for children . In The Great Muppet Caper, she's interrupted while explaining a readiness to walk along the beach naked to her mother, while in The Muppets Take Manhattan, she declares that she wouldn’t pose naked, "even if it is artistic." And I love her for it

On Tuesday night, I'll be live-tweeting The Muppets. You can follow me on Twitter (if you don't already) at https://twitter.com/OUTSPOKEN_DIVA. Just let me know that this post sent you there. I have a nasty habit of blocking people that I don't think should follow me. Yes, I know I have a public profile, Shut Up!!! I think the show should be fun.
I hope they break out a rousing tune of  "Mahna Mahna" in one of the episodes. I rock that song like it played on a pop cultured trending radio station. Oh if you ever feel the need to get me a gift, The Muppet Character Encyclopedia would be nice. *hint, hint* *wink, wink*

So, who is going to watch The Muppets? Who is your favorite Muppet? Comment below.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms (Yes, I see the irony.)

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

I Ain't Got No Type! Well With Physical Size Types, I Don't

Now that you are finished dancing to the Rae Sremmurd tune in your head, let me tell you that trying to find images for this post really sickened my psyche. If you would be be so bold to do an internet search for thin men, skinny men, big men & chubby men, you will understand my frustration. People will body-shame anybody. *sigh* Human bodies range from as thin as a Bic mechanical pencil lead to as curvy as a Hot Wheels track to as wide as an empty Cheeto bag. Nobody deserves to be body shamed. Body Shaming is Cruel & Gross and it Needs to End!!!
If you ever ask my bestie boo, LJ who he thinks is my type, he will tell you, Cedric the Entertainer as Cedric Jackie Robinson in The Steve Harvey Show is my type. And invariably, when he sees a short, dark skin large man around our vicinity he will say, "There's goes your type". Once there was a waiter at a restaurant, that was not our waiter, that fit that description. Again he was not our waiter so, why did he bring my & no one else's plate? LJ was cracking up. When we go dancing, he gets to laugh to his heart's content. Many of these guys have placed themselves between us and our other friends to dance near me during line dances. I would've thought it was a coincidence too had I not seen a couple of them ask him to scooch over so they could get between us to dance. I know it is crazy. Even crazier part is these men never ask me out. I guess they just want to be near "The Diva".

Honestly a man's physical size doesn't factor in my preferences. Other than body-builders, I think I've dated all the male body types across the board.
I remember the first "big" guy I was attractive to was singer Gerald Levert. But I haven't really cared about body type since 1997. I dated the first of a few large men I've dated and didn't think twice about it. He was a good guy, Somewhere around 2004, I didn't even become ashamed about describing the guy I was starting to date then. When my friends asked me what did he look like, his description rolled off my tongue like I said his name.
Contrary to what television & movies tell us body size is not an indicator on behavior.
A very thin guy referred to my mother as a b-word and kept calling me all day because he unemployed and broke

A man that is skinny was the ear I cried into when my mother got sick. He still calls to see how she is doing.

When Nev Schulman offers me a job for the TV show Catfish, it's because of an average or dad bod guy I dated. Hey, I don't go out on any dates without doing a little intel since that guy.

In the first Rom-Com post, that guy was a momma's boy that is now someone loving husband. He is is rather muscular and built.

Large guys dominate the Good Ex list. They are also on the Bad Ex list, also. And all of them are Not dateless, sexless or shy either.

That's part of my story. If other women or men look at the body types of the people they date or have dated, their story will probably differ from mine. And that's okay. ♫I ain't got no type. A good man is what I like.♫ We all should be striving to find good people so we can be good to them.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms

Monday, August 31, 2015

Labor Day is on a Monday, Still Want to Make it Meatless? (Healthy Holiday Recipes)

 I can't lie. After July 4th weekend, I felt a little carnivorous for a while. And I was feeling a little runned down among other things. I did a food diary on myself and I saw I was consuming more meat than I had before that weekend. So a few weeks ago, I decided to go "meatless before dinner except for Mondays. Right now on Mondays, I don't eat meat at all. Yes many times, I participate in "Meatless Monday". Whenever I do it on a consistent basis, I see gains in my energy & decreases in my weight. Well, Labor Day is coming up. Labor Day is always on a Monday. Well, I've pulled a couple of recipes & tips to help stay meatless on this holiday Monday. 

Grilled Eggplant Sandwich (Recipe found HERE)
Ingredients
• 1 large globe eggplant (about 1 lb), sliced crosswise into 1/4-inch thick rounds
• Salt
• 8 ounces fresh mozzarella cheese, sliced into 1/4-inch slices
• 1 large beefsteak tomato
• 1 medium red onion
• 10-12 fresh basil leaves
• About 1/4 cup olive oil
• 2 Tbsp red wine vinegar
• 2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
• 6 small burger buns
Directions
1. Line a large tray with paper towels. Lay out the rounds of eggplant on the tray in a single layer. Salt generously on both sides. Let sit while you prepare the other ingredients.
2. Cut the tomato into 1/4 inch thick slices. Cut the red onion into 1/8 inch slices. Pour the two vinegars and a teaspoon of olive oil into a flat container such as a casserole dish. Sprinkle with a little salt and stir with a fork to combine. Lay the onions and tomatoes down in the container and turn to coat with the dressing.
3. Prepare your grill for high, direct heat. Make sure the grates are clean, and close the lid.
4. Once the eggplant slices have been sitting for at least 15 minutes, pat them dry with more paper towels. Use a pastry brush to paint them on both sides with olive oil. Lay the slices on the grill and grill them for about 3-4 minutes per side with the lid closed, until nicely browned. Remove from grill. Lightly toast the burger buns on the grill, for about 30 seconds to a minute, just enough to get lightly toasted.
5. To build the sandwich, set out your burger buns. Put two or three rounds of eggplant slices on top of the bottom bun. Then add a tomato slice and some red onion. Add a couple slice of the fresh mozzarella and top it with some basil leaves.


And before you add fries to that burger, try this side dish.

Lemon-Marinated Vegetables (LINK to the Recipe)
Ingredients
• 1/3 cup olive oil or cooking oil
• 1/3 cup fresh lemon juice
• 2 tablespoons snipped fresh basil
• 1 clove garlic, minced
• 1 tablespoon Dijon-style mustard
• 1/8 teaspoon salt
• 1/8 teaspoon pepper
• 1/2 pound fresh green beans, trimmed
• 12 ounces baby carrots with tops, peeled and trimmed
• 2 red and/or yellow sweet peppers
• 1/2 pound mushrooms
• 1 cup cherry tomatoes
Directions
1. For vinaigrette, combine oil, lemon juice, basil, garlic, mustard, salt, and pepper in a screw-top jar. Cover and shake well. Set aside.
2. Cook green beans, covered, in a small amount of boiling water in a large saucepan for 4 minutes. Add carrots and cook, covered, for 8 minutes more or until vegetables are crisp-tender. Drain and rinse with cold water.
3. Cut shapes out of the sweet peppers, using a star-shape cutter. Place the green beans, carrots, sweet peppers, mushrooms, and tomatoes in a bag set in a large bowl. Pour vinaigrette over vegetables.
4. Seal bag, and refrigerate for 4 to 24 hours, turning the bag occasionally to distribute vinaigrette.
5. To serve, bring to room temperature. Drain vegetables; arrange on a platter.

If these don't wet your appetite, here are other foods you can eat on Meatless Monday the Labor Day Edition

  • Grilled Fish
  • Portabella Burgers
  • Black Bean Burgers 
  • Vegan Skewers 
And countless of others.


Need some Tips for a Meatless Cookout (Found in this ARTICLE)


  • Kabobs are a BBQ staple that make the perfect meatless entree. Add tofu cubes, cherry tomatoes, mushrooms, roasted potatoes or just about any other vegetable that strikes your fancy
  • Turn up the creativity and make delicious, smoky pizzas right on the grill. All you need is pizza dough, sauce and your favorite vegetables thinly sliced or pre-grilled.
  • End the meal on a healthy note: include a tray of fresh fruit, a parfait or homemade smoothies.

Well, however you decide to celebrate Labor Day, I hope it is a safe say. Meatless or Meaty, let's keep it healthy as possible. Have a Happy Labor Day!!!

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms




Wednesday, August 26, 2015

How I Feel About That Necessary Evil Called "The News"


And before anyone says, "That's why I don't watch the news",  know that those of you who don't, are the people don't ever know it was going to rain, get hot or cold this afternoon. So, go over there & sit down please!!!
Can we humans get our crap together for like a good solid week and do nothing wrong. Just one week. Even the entertainment stuff is making me frown. But I Must watch this stuff because I refuse to uniformed.
Dear The News,
If you had a face I would punch it!!!


As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms