Not Interested in Dating: The Foreign Born

I think this is my second to last installment of this series. One more that will get me talked about by a Pal but I’ll deal with it. Anybody else I won’t date enters in a "Grey" space that include living with parents and fathers. Grey Spaces take too much time to explain. Not trying to explain but watch somebody ask.

Okay I can trace my family’s lineage comfortable to the beginnings of the Reconstruction. Three of my great grandparents were children or young adults. My maternal great grandmother wasn’t born until the 1890’s. So, if your family was not in America by the late 1800’s, at least before WWI, I’m not likely to date you. I prefer American men. I won’t say I’ll never date anyone not born here. But the chances are 90%, I won’t.

I know I attract men from Africa, the Caribbean, and Mexico. I’m a BBW and I’m aware of their preference to my size. Yet nothing annoys me more than immigrants dissing American culture. I didn’t choose to come and stay in America. Yet, there is a population of immigrants that seem to always complain about American life. I want to say so badly, “Then why are you still here”. The most annoying of the complainer population are the guys who want to date me. Let me hear “If you were in my country” one more time I am going to scream. I’m not in your country. If I was in your country, I would Only be visiting. I never want to live anywhere but the USA.

I remember a few years when I found out my mother thought I was going to bring home someone of foreign decent one day. I laughed for hours. She learned then I don’t date non-Americans. It was when the movie Phat Girlz came out. The movie made me want to weep because I know there are American women out there who think the only men they can attract are non-American. That is heart breaking.

If I ever attract one that doesn’t constantly complain about the USA, I’ll date one. I understand loving your country but don’t disrespect the one you are currently living in. Let me leave that statement right there because I almost finish it with something mean. I like my men Made in America.

As Always, Talking to You in Adult Terms