How Much Time to Take?

I've been watching Think Like a Man a lot lately. I just think Romany Malaco is so cute. I even added him to the Eye Candy list. (yes there is a list of handsome known actors, singers, athlete, etc to me for me) Well the last time I watched it last month I thought "Umm I wonder if anyone is following the 90 day rule? Has the use of the 90 day rule increased since the book came out? Has the use of the 90 day rule increased since the movie came out?

Then my friend T.T. asked on a FB group this question: Do you guys believe in the 30 day rule, waiting until marriage, one night stands, etc? What's your stance on this? a few days ago. Well this got me to thinking Umm time to post this to the blog.

I read the book when it first came out. I have a hardback copy. I'm an avid reader. I'll read anything once. There were many parts that were very helpful and then there were parts that I couldn't believe needed to be said. The 90 Day rule was one. (The reason why men cheat was another) All I could think was "Joan on Girlfriends had a 3 Month Rule and people thought she was goofy & crazy. Well, Well I guess Steve Harvey is goofy & crazy also. 3 months is 90 days." When the movie cam out I was happy they had a character that tried the 90-day Rule. It said to me unlike many movies Everybody is not hooking up all willy-nilly. Everybody is not sleeping with any and everybody. And some that are feel bad afterwards.

There is a previous post that alludes to my personal stance for My Life. So that doesn't need to be retold.
Go find it. Now my stance for people in general should not shock anybody. I feel any Adult having sex shouldn't until they've had a thorough talk with their partner. Take as long as needed. Past 90 days if you want to. There is way too much crazy out there. Physical health issues, Mental health issues, Emotional hang-ups, and Personal values are among the things that need to be discussed. Okay two examples. Woman who never has sex without a condom meets a man who hates to wear condoms. They need to talk and in the act of passion is not the time to talk or compromise. Man has sex with a virgin and he didn't know until afterwards. They needed to talk.

Now for the people who have One Night Stands. Know the One Night Stand Rules and most importantly Use Protection.

Every One having sex Know Your Status on All STD's including HIV/AIDS

So that my opinion. How do you feel? Did anything in the book and/or movie change your mind on any behavior

7 Ways to Glam Up the Walk of Shame???

Saw this article today 7 Ways to Glam Up the Walk of Shame and my reaction was Ewww. I am not a prude I know people have sex but why are they glorifying the "Walk of Shame". Umm that is SHAMEFUL. Pretty much need to say "How to be Cute after being a Jump Off". Walk of Shame is not something to be proud of. Let me be crass, if you Can't wash your butt at their place then umm...

I don't think some people understand the outcome of their decision. There toooo many diseases out there to be all willy nilly about casual sex. There's nothing Glamorous about catching an STD or HIV/AIDS. And amazing how this article never at least suggested "safe sex" How about an article on the Ways on Preventing the Walk of Shame. Like one tip being "Slow you hot tail down"

Well Hello Beautiful I think this article is down right ugly. Shame on You!!!